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Opener Experiment

PostPosted: Sat Mar 20, 2010 9:19 pm
by Guest
Im going out and I'm going to try this tonight. I will let you know how it goes.

Me/PUA: Hey Guys, I only have a second (time limit set) but wanted to get the female perspective on this. You see, I have a friend that get's tongue tied around women all the time and I'm trying to get some insight as to why. Why do you think men get anxious when talking to attractive women?

Them: Blah Blah Blah!

PostPosted: Mon Mar 22, 2010 10:16 am
by Guest
If I were you, I'd try to reword the entire opener away from the Mystery Method sentence structure. Make it more natural...would you ever really use the phrase, "...wanted to get a female's perspective" in day to day conversation?

I doubt it.

PostPosted: Mon Mar 22, 2010 10:46 am
by Guest
[QUOTE]would you ever really use the phrase, "...wanted to get a female's perspective" in day to day conversation?
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Yeah, I probably would LOL! I get what your saying though. How would you word it?

PostPosted: Mon Mar 22, 2010 11:12 am
by Guest
"Hey guys, gonna ask you a question before my buddy finds me. Brought him out tonight to get him talking to women again...been a while for him, ya know? Anyway, he keeps getting tongue-tied or flat out doesn't say anything at all. I'm at a loss here on what to do for the guy...why is this so difficult for him?!"

PostPosted: Mon Apr 05, 2010 9:46 pm
by Guest
I'm actually not a fan of these kind of openers.

It presupposes that all men get tongue tied around attractive women and immediately amps their value/status. Especially in your immediate interaction with them...