The shy advantage.

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For all of you who know me, I am as shy as they come. How can I use that to my advantage without being cocky funny.

[Guest]

Bro.
I've met you and shy is definitely not a word I would use to describe you lol.
I don't know you, just met yoiu once

[Guest]

he is shy. he was really shy yesterday

[Guest]

Hahaha. Seriously though, how can I use it to my advantage??

[Guest]

huh?

[Guest]

Don't mind PP...he's a bit grumpy today.

To use it to your advantage, just be upfront and honest about it. "I'm actually a really shy guy, but for some reason...I don't know what it is...but I can easily talk to you. You feel that? That's called chemistry."

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For all of you who know me, I am as shy as they come. How can I use that to my advantage without being cocky funny.
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So you don't want to be cocky/funny and you don't want to be outgoing? Good luck.

Or what you're really saying is you don't want to put in any work but you want to reap the benefits.

Pickup is really just a self-help book. If you can't help yourself no one else can.

You have 2 solutions:

1) Put in the work and get over it.

2) Make excuses about how you can't get over it and rely on fools mate aka leftovers.

[Guest]

All I asked is how can it be an advantage.

[Guest]

shyer people convey less dominance which can actually make someone more comfortable with you earlier on. You can use that to your advantage in order to get your foot in the door and slide around her defenses, but after that point you must be more dominant. Kind of like the apocalypse opener.

It's not the quantity of questions you ask her, but if they are good questions or not. Focus on asking her open ended questions that will make her want to get involved in talking with you and chat her brains out. It's not the person who's talking that's in control of a conversation, but the one being talked to.

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