Ah, you like me, love cheese.

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So I downloaded a bunch of NLP stuff, and I mean a shit load!, and in the midst of it all I found an interesting technique.
Making a girl like you by simply telling her that she likes you.
We all know if you are talking to a girl and you say something like "later when we are at my place and I am massaging you yadda yadda yadda..." she will imagine you giving her a massage.
In other words, you paint a mental picture and she will imagine the two of you in it.

Also, we all know the power of the nonverbal.
If I meet a girl in line at a deli and I see she is getting a sandwich with three different kinds of cheeses on it I could say "Ah. You, like me, love cheese" and everything will be understood.
But!
What if I was in the exact same scenario and instead of saying "Ah. You, like me, love cheese" I said "Ah. You like me, love cheese" taking out that pause after you and emphasizing the word love.
The text in which I read this states that saying things like this will make the target read into this on a subconscious level and therefore causing her to like you.
I would like to hear your opinions on this.

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I think this stuff actually works..One of my favorites is
"your mind" (you are mine) dropped into a sentence

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Hrmmm...

I guess I will just rely on other stuff than NLP to meet girls.

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Hrmmm...

I guess I will just rely on other stuff than NLP to meet girls.




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Fair enough.
I will too, but my question is do you guys on the lair think this stuff works?
This could be my first line of offense and then I could shoot the normal shit lol

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david shade is huge into nlp, I would look up some of his stuff. I personally think I am not ready yet for nlp, I need to get the basics down before going onto more advanced things like nlp.

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Hrmmm...

I guess I will just rely on other stuff than NLP to meet girls.




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Fair enough.
I will too, but my question is do you guys on the lair think this stuff works?
This could be my first line of offense and then I could shoot the normal shit lol

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Do I think it works? Yes

Do I think it is shady? Yes

Do I think it is the same as lieing and manipulating? Yes

Will I ever do it? Nope

Guess I am just not a big fan of suckering some girl into liking me. I might be wrong about that assessment but that is how I feel about NLP.

To each their own...

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Do I think it is shady? Yes

Do I think it is the same as lieing and manipulating? Yes

Will I ever do it? Nope

Guess I am just not a big fan of suckering some girl into liking me. I might be wrong about that assessment but that is how I feel about NLP.

To each their own...

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Thank you for your words of wisdom.
I guess it is kind of immoral.
I wonder how strong it is though...
Like if it will produce stalkers or just a one night stand girl
hmmmm

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I guess I'm just evil or whatever, but I'll use whatever works, if its NLP or cocky funny. I find NLP very interesting and have actually started reading a book on the basics of it. Like I mentioned earlier though, I don't think I am ready for the hard core nlp patterns yet, I am just getting my feet wet with it right now.

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I guess I'm just evil or whatever, but I'll use whatever works, if its NLP or cocky funny. I find NLP very interesting and have actually started reading a book on the basics of it. Like I mentioned earlier though, I don't think I am ready for the hard core nlp patterns yet, I am just getting my feet wet with it right now.
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Lol. I am going to use it too.
What I meant was I can see how people can think it is evil and manipulative.
It is manipulative.
But if it works, why not use it?
I too am interested in NLP.
I think we're on the same boat as fas as NLP is concerned.

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Tell me how that works for you. Try not to lose yourself in the process.