Cycles

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As everyone who has ever had an intimate relationship with a woman for any length of time can attest, you will quickly learn about the female menstrual cycle and the various emotional states that may come and go with it.

A quick primer – the cycle happens on average every 28 days with ovulation usually on the 14th day. The most fertile period during the cycle comes right around ovulation as sperm can live over 72 hours inside the female body. Hormones to promote pregnancy typically happen two days prior to ovulation and lasts normally around 48 hours.

Before the period occurs, many symptoms may occur in the female, varying in intensity from woman to woman, based on genetics, birth control, health, diet, age and other factors. Some of the effects that may occur:
- Breast tenderness and swelling
- Weight gain of a few pounds
- Bloating
- Cramping
- Fatigue
- Mood swings

Such symptoms are usually predictable and occur regularly during the two weeks prior to the period but are usually at their worst starting the 6th day before the period. PMS generally occurs on a regular basis, with susceptible women experiencing the same symptoms on a regular basis.

As a guy, it is advantageous to talk to your girl about her cycle. Is it regular? Does she get moody? Is it painful? Having a better understanding can help you in all of your interactions with her. It should also demonstrate caring and compassion that you are trying to get to know her and understand her better.

When a girl is PMSing, a guy should know how to handle her mood swings if she is susceptible to such. Hugs and kisses can sometimes diffuse arguments or drama during that time instead of heatedly reacting to any spike of emotion from her. Women will appreciate your actions and appreciate you more for being understanding – at least the women in my life have.

Many times, if a girl is acting irrational during when she is PMSing, I will call her on her BS by telling her she is overreacting or being irrational. Some women are fine with this, however with others, I have found that you need to have a conversation regarding her mood swings when she is not PMSing. “Wow, last week you were really moody, were you PMSing?” Get that conversation on the table so that you can bring it up during the moment to ease any irrationality and avoid needless arguments.

Really key is noting her cycle and correlating it to her moods. Most women have a time or two a month when they are really horny. Usually this occurring around ovulation is normal but I have found many women also get really horny right before their period. It varies by girl but I have found it to be fairly consistent for each girl.

If you need help tracking a female’s cycle, there are actually free website to help. Check out [url]www.pmsbuddy.com[/url] as one example.

Strategy: So, if you have a girl who was really hot for you at the club or when you are out with her and the next time you see her she suddenly goes cold, correlate it to her monthly cycle and try to contact her again the same time of her cycle a month later.

My philosophy is to never throw away a number. You never know what mood, emotional state or relationship statuts the girl was in when you met her. I will always try again later if I was really attracted to the girl. If I thought our interaction was really intense, I will note what time of the month it happened and try again a month or two later during that same time.

Plant many seeds and with nourishment they will grow.

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I once posted some good stuff on this. Can't find it right now. The matter was originally brought to my attention on mASF by Kwagmyre in 2006..

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Subject: Track her fucking cycles!!!
Date: November 23rd, 2006 07:59:12 AM (EST)
Group: alt.seduction.relationships
Author: Kwagmyre
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Yes, believe it or not, even as bad as things are going for my LTR right now, I am STILL learning new things, experimenting, and growing. These things will only help in the future.

Tracking the cycles of any woman you are in a relationship with is not exactly new advice, but I think very few of us actually follow it.

For the past three months, I have been doing this more literally, and I can now attest, this is fucking MONEY.

Here's how it works:

When you are in any mltr/ltr with a chick, she will usually tell you EXACTLY the day her period begins. This is a gold mine of information! Don't waste it!

The way I track it, is very simple, takes about 5 seconds, literally. I use a smartphone, in lieu of a PDA, but any time management/tracking system will work.

Simply, the day her period starts, I make an unscheduled event on the calendar of that day in my phone (so it doesn't interfere with the rest of my calendar): I mark it "DW PR". That's it.

Then, I watch and wait. Sometimes, if she tells me when she is ovulating, (they usually know), then I'll track that as well, with a simple "DW OV".

The results of this have been fascinating.

The most signifigant thing I have discovered about this, for DW anyway, is this: On days 9,10, and 11 after her period, are by far, her horniest days of the month. The time I put her in the schoolgirl outfit, then handcuffed and blindfolded her on her knees, and force mouthfucked her? Day 9 of that month. Our latest BDSM scene? Day 10 of this month.

Basically, on days 9, 10, and 11, I can do pretty much whatever I want, and she will love it all.

Now, DW typically ovulates right around day 14. MOST women, are horniest WHEN they are ovulating. Not so with DW. She horniest BEFORE she ovulates. Why? I have no fucking idea. Also really don't care. Maybe it's because she had her tubes tied, not sure. Point is, I now KNOW, from three months worth of data, when she will literally be unable to concentrate, she is so fucking horny. Her "early onset" is unique to her; without tracking, I would not have had this information.

There's more: It has been posted on ASF before, that women usually need it harder and nastier the closer they are getting to their period (and while on it), and usually AFTER the period, for the first week or so of the new month, will be more responsive to loving, tender, emotional stuff. I have found this to be exactly the case with DW. In fact, the way I now think of this, is, first part of the month, she faces me (missionary, kissing, I love you's), and the second half of the month, she faces away from me (doggie, assslapping, dirty talk).

Of course, I am not this regimented... I don't ONLY do doggie-style at the bottom half of the month, in fact we rarely stay in only one position during sex, but hopefully my point is clear. Missionary position can be loving and tender, but it can also be hardcore and nasty. As the man, I set the emotional tone in the bedroom, as I am happy to do, and now, thanks to the cycle-tracking, I know I can do it in such a way that will lead her to be the most responsive.

I swear, having this information is almost like being able to predict the future. I know, almost exactly, what she is thinking about her attitude towards sex, on any given day.

We spend an awful lot of time on trying to figure out behavior on the basis of emotions and psychology, sometimes it's important to remember just how important the PHYSIOLOGY is as well, and that, basically, when it comes right down to it, we are still animals with very primative and primal instincts.

Track her cycles. There's no downside to doing it.