when you draw a blank

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Sterling suggested I say "How do you all know each other?" when I run out of things to say. Seems like a great idea except tonight it happened when I was talking to a girl who was sitting by herself. Any ideas? I'm finally starting to open, but frequently bail when i run out of things to talk about......or can't seem to find a good transition to any of my stories.

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sometimes i through deep judging questions @ the broads. something akin to "what are you doing with your life" is a great way to throw the curveball and get to know where there head and prioritys lie. if it gets to deep, negs and classic pu are easily transitioned. its a garunteed talker as all chics love talking bout themselves

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who do you know here / why are you here...

segway to.. oh, how do you know one another. / introduce me to your friends

easy japanesy!

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I think having a phrase you can use in any situation if you go blank is a good idea until you can just wing it. I think the phrase though should definitely be open-ended so you have some time to think. Also I think you should figure out what kind of angle works best with your personality and make up a phrase that suits that. You will realize that with your personality certain angles work better and you may show different sides of your personality with different girls. Like if you meet a girl thats into the same kind of music you might talk more about music.

I say just think of something fun and different like I dont know this is just pulled from my ass : Wait! are you one of those girls that wants a big wedding? with everyone you know showing up?"

You could do that in any situation and would probably give you material to go on. like a Oh that's it the wedding is off I want a small one. Or ok honey, but I get to pick where the honey moon is.

Later you may realize that other lines are better for your personality. Like if you are a cocky/ funny guy. You could just be like "Damn why are you so attracted to me?!" or whatever

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Depending on who you talk to asking alot of questions isnt good. Try saying, "people watching is fun". Give her a sec or two to coment. If she just says yea, then randomly point to someone across the way and make an observasion. "Omg, that chick needs to get out more," or " what was that chick thinking when she put that together". Chicks love to talk shit about other chicks they dont know. Particularly when they feel threatend by that chick. Play with it, make it yours, but dont get TO harsh with your coments, (unless your Lion, then you can get away with murder) she will call you out on it then you just have to tip toe through recovery and thats not fun.

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I can only carry this conversation for so long. Can you contribute at least 9.72343%.

Or have a routine like Marry, fuck, kill. Or put some notes in your phone and act like you are texting while you read it. I just put one word in my phone for each topic.

Or comment on her accesories. Say I really like those earrings. Where did you get those because I bet my GF, sister, mother, FB would love those. Girls love talking about fashion and themselves.

Or neg if you know how to properly do it.

Or say you have to piss and bounce. I can't tell you how many times I leave a set and then return later. Umm yes I can I do it every single night. Just say hey I have to go see about some friends but I will talk to you later. Or just be an ass like me and turn around and walk off.

Another thing I used to do when I first started was bring notes with me in my pocket. I wouldn't ever take them out but I would read them right before I went in to the joint. I know this helped me out. Most of my notes were subjects to talk about since I am not a very good conversationalist.

Hell pull the notes out right in front of her and DLV yourself. It will prob be funny and she won't know if you are being serious. Then bam go into next topic. That would actually be pretty funny.

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Lol, that last one is fucking money PC, Im gonna do that one!

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Rembrandt, when I've ran out of things to say I'll ask "so whats the craziest most outrageous thing you ever did in highschool" If she doesn't jump right on it, then say ok since you are being little Ms. Quiet Pants, I'll go first and then proceed with your story. Hopefully you've got a good one ready to go.
When you are telling your story, interweave your personality and values into your story. This will let her feel more comfortable with you and demonstrate you are a quality person.