The shy advantage.

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I think that if shyness could be used to your advantage in game then we wouldn't really need all the ebooks and forums or the community at all.
Everyone would know what that advantage is because being shy is the easy way out of the game.
There is a basic rule to life that you have to work to get a result.
It takes effort.
There is no equation in life where you put in nothing and get something.
0 is not equal to 1 and will never be equal to 1 unless something is added to it.
If you are in a club you will not get the girl standing in the corner of the room with your head down.
Even if a girl does approach you on those terms then you will not get the girl with a wall of shyness shrouding you.
I have been shy all of my life, and still am more reserved than I would like to be, and I have had the bare minimum of success with girls because of that.
My ex gf hated that I was so shy.
I hated it too.
We would be around her friends and even tho "we were in love with each other" she would forget I was there.
I got the most success in that relationship when I opened up and we actually talked for a while.
The only way I can see shyness being any kind of advantage is it will make you seem mysterious, but there are ways you can be mysterious w/o being shy and eventually the cat is going to be let out of the bag and your girl will come to the realization of "Oh he's not mysterious, just shy" -DLV and it will ultimately act as a detriment to your game.