Assume Attraction ---> Go Direct??

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++++It's not being classified as a player that's your number one failure, it's the fact that you don't embrace being referred to as a player that causes failure. You see, being classified as a player is a shit test. Your problem is that you're not passing the shit test because you have this idea that there is something wrong with being a player when, in fact, MOST women want you to be experienced and skilled in the art of socializing with women, handling women, leading women, and pleasing them.++++

Fortunately, women haven't accused me of being a player in quite some time. For a while, I was getting that on a lot of sets. Lately, they may be thinking it, but they're not saying it.

I did an experiment on a 6 about 2 or 3 weeks ago. I knew right away I wasn't that attracted but I wanted to bed her anyway, so I just told her "See that guy over there? That's my friend ***. He's the nice guy. That guy over there? That's my friend ***. He's the asshole. And me? I'm the player." She went home with me that night.

So I tried it the next weekend on a much younger 7.5/8 and got blown out. But I think I threw that out way too early. So there may be potential for announcing "I'm the player".

As for the "I don't understand women" routine, that's working for number closes and future dates. They aren't flaking. I need to try this on some 8's and 9's and see what happens.

I wish there was a magic formula for success that worked with all women all the time. Some are focused on finding a relationship. Some have a boyfriend they're madly in love with. Some have a boyfriend they aren't that into. The technique/approach that sweeps one woman off her feet will bomb with the next.

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Alphagame, youre an attractive guy, and like men, women too get intimidated. I can see how DLVing yourself by "I dont understand women" would work on a 6, as you are lowering yourself to her level. 6's KNOW that theyre 6's and if youre a 7+, shed be wondering WHY youre talking to her-->her conclusion is that you just wanna fuck her, which to most women is a big turn off.

If i were you and approached an 9-10, i wouldnt DLV, but rather just show a shy confidence. i think youd have much better luck in comparison to your "i dont understand women" routine.

regardless of what everyone says, it works for you, so continue doing it; your game is not like everyone elses.

having said that, BR, great post man..