Your mom would approve - I AM A MOMMA'S BOY
Ok Dallas girls...stop boring me! - MY LIFE IS BORING
.that's probably a bit crass but just being upfront and honest. - I'M BETA AND NOT COMFORTABLE WITH WHAT I JUST SAID SO NOW I HAVE TO JUSTIFY IT TO YOU, RANDOM PERSON
The Uptown persona is fun, but not substantive. - WAHHH BOO HOO MY LIFE SUCKS
Let's see...what should I put to give a glimpse of me? - UH GAH GAH GAH...
I am well educated both formally and informally through. I thoroughly enjoy my job and to supplement my days, I try to stay active in the community through a variety of means. I think that it is important to have a balance in one's life. For instance, I am involved in local politics which is certainly interesting. - I AM A HUGE DORK. I AM BORING, LOGICAL, AND NOT GOOD IN BED.
I am an extremely introspective person. It's fun to philosophize in addition to how it makes you grow. So, I welcome the same in significant other, actually prefer. I want to meet someone who is fun and intelligent with a curiosity about life. Someone who can keep me on my toes. I want her to have a presence that people notice when she enters a room that makes me proud to be with her. Say hi if you are at all interested or want to know more, and I will reply in kind. - WOW, THIS IS ACTUALLY GOOD. HE SHOULD DELETE EVERYTHING ELSE AND KEEP THIS
You will find out that I am far from boring. - EVERYONE THINKS I'M BORING.
Have a good day. - BORING COMMENT
Also, please no winks. They aren't very personal and they show me that you are too shy for me anyway. If you want to say "hi" then please do so. - MORE COMPLAINING
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by Guest » Fri Oct 15, 2010 1:52 pm
[QUOTE=Muk;38097]Grimm: I thought it looked good until you commented...Do girls really look at profiles like that?[/QUOTE]
They don't take time to break it down step-by-step like that, but any girl you meet anywhere will take what you give her to work with and form an impression of you. They are very good at that.
I think most girls would read that profile, and see a guy who's self-conscious about being boring (which means that other girls in his life have told him he's boring), and a guy who's not happy with his lot in life when it comes to women.
These things aren't going to work for him.
They don't take time to break it down step-by-step like that, but any girl you meet anywhere will take what you give her to work with and form an impression of you. They are very good at that.
I think most girls would read that profile, and see a guy who's self-conscious about being boring (which means that other girls in his life have told him he's boring), and a guy who's not happy with his lot in life when it comes to women.
These things aren't going to work for him.
- Guest
by Guest » Fri Oct 15, 2010 2:39 pm
The first profile, sadly, I would consider to be one of the better ones I've seen. Was it a little try hard? Yes, it was. He was trying too hard to be mysterious/witty. But, at least he comes across as somewhat interesting.
The second one was bad in an absolute sense, but relative to the shit that most guys put on their profile, it was decent. I think the opening Uptown remark was good, albeit not said in a good way with humor and conviction.
@Muk
Yes, this is how women read these profiles. They may not know it's how they process the information, but it's how it goes down.
The second one was bad in an absolute sense, but relative to the shit that most guys put on their profile, it was decent. I think the opening Uptown remark was good, albeit not said in a good way with humor and conviction.
@Muk
Yes, this is how women read these profiles. They may not know it's how they process the information, but it's how it goes down.
- Guest
by Guest » Fri Oct 15, 2010 2:58 pm
[QUOTE=Bull Run;38100]
@Muk
Yes, this is how women read these profiles. They may not know it's how they process the information, but it's how it goes down.[/QUOTE]
I agree with Grimms breakdown, but I have to interject that there are at least 2 ways women break these profiles down. 1) with no relationship in mind 2) with relationships in mind.
The breakdown is accurate for girls not seeking a relationship man.
Not so much for the girl seeking a relationship.
The changes are small but basically the girl looking for more would be comparing what her position in the relationship would be. For instance, if he is involved in local politics she would likely have to be prim and proper in public which means she has to be a "good" girl and keep her nose clean.
If this is the case, he sort of contradicts himself or strictly implies "freak in the sheets, lady on the streets", which we can all agree is better assumed not said because, if he is looking for a "fun" girl, what is the implication of "fun" with these new contexts?
Not only that but she has to "have a presence when she enters the room" he is speaking primarily of the type of girl he espouses to not like, uptown girls. What does this guy want?
The politics thing is good for a woman looking to increase her status.
I say again, it just depends on the type of girl reading his profile. There are a few girls still looking for relationships. Over all, it's still bad.
@Muk
Yes, this is how women read these profiles. They may not know it's how they process the information, but it's how it goes down.[/QUOTE]
I agree with Grimms breakdown, but I have to interject that there are at least 2 ways women break these profiles down. 1) with no relationship in mind 2) with relationships in mind.
The breakdown is accurate for girls not seeking a relationship man.
Not so much for the girl seeking a relationship.
The changes are small but basically the girl looking for more would be comparing what her position in the relationship would be. For instance, if he is involved in local politics she would likely have to be prim and proper in public which means she has to be a "good" girl and keep her nose clean.
If this is the case, he sort of contradicts himself or strictly implies "freak in the sheets, lady on the streets", which we can all agree is better assumed not said because, if he is looking for a "fun" girl, what is the implication of "fun" with these new contexts?
Not only that but she has to "have a presence when she enters the room" he is speaking primarily of the type of girl he espouses to not like, uptown girls. What does this guy want?
The politics thing is good for a woman looking to increase her status.
I say again, it just depends on the type of girl reading his profile. There are a few girls still looking for relationships. Over all, it's still bad.
- Guest
by Guest » Fri Oct 15, 2010 3:12 pm
[QUOTE=Finesse;38101]I agree with Grimms breakdown, but I have to interject that there are at least 2 ways women break these profiles down. 1) with no relationship in mind 2) with relationships in mind.[/QUOTE]
I'm not 100% sure this is true. They may think they want a relationship, but I don't think they would actively seek out beta males (let's face it, any man that implies that he wants marriage/relationship in a profile is going to be thought of by her as beta).
Now, is there more logic used online? Yes, absolutely. So, instead of reading a profile and letting her pussy tingle like she would face-to-face, she'll short circuit some of that and look for what she *thinks* she's looking for in a man.
I'm not 100% sure this is true. They may think they want a relationship, but I don't think they would actively seek out beta males (let's face it, any man that implies that he wants marriage/relationship in a profile is going to be thought of by her as beta).
Now, is there more logic used online? Yes, absolutely. So, instead of reading a profile and letting her pussy tingle like she would face-to-face, she'll short circuit some of that and look for what she *thinks* she's looking for in a man.
- Guest
by Guest » Fri Oct 15, 2010 3:14 pm
I don't do online game, so I don't know the first thing. But I think anyone on this board can have a profile that's better than 99% of guys who are out there pissing in the wind.
Read the profile and ask yourself "what would a winner say?"
What would someone with a lifetime of success with women wherever he goes, what would he say? Because that's the kind of guy a girl wants to be with.
A guy like that is going to have a positive outlook on women and dating, not a negative one. Why would you have any negativity to women and dating if you get what you want all the time?
He'll be short on time. He won't check his profile that often. Appearances matter, he takes care of himself, but he's not trying to impress anyone. He never explains himself to anyone. He's in charge but he's not anal. All the things that make a guy alpha.
Think about it.
Read the profile and ask yourself "what would a winner say?"
What would someone with a lifetime of success with women wherever he goes, what would he say? Because that's the kind of guy a girl wants to be with.
A guy like that is going to have a positive outlook on women and dating, not a negative one. Why would you have any negativity to women and dating if you get what you want all the time?
He'll be short on time. He won't check his profile that often. Appearances matter, he takes care of himself, but he's not trying to impress anyone. He never explains himself to anyone. He's in charge but he's not anal. All the things that make a guy alpha.
Think about it.
- Guest
by Guest » Fri Oct 15, 2010 3:16 pm
Here's one I thought was especially bad:
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[COLOR=blue]Some characteristics I think set me apart from the herd are honesty, ambition, reliability, passion, athleticism, strong work ethic, dedication to self improvement, well educated, pretty laid back for a highly motivated individual, and open minded. I would also add tall, sometimes dark (i. e. depending on how much playing in the sun I have been doing), and devilishly handsome but since beauty is in the eye of the beholder; I do realize that not all of you young ladies will necessarily find me as physically stunning as I actually am…… lol. j/k ;)
There is one important disclosure that I need to make upfront from the gate. I am very much a man’s man (i. e. complete opposite of a lady’s man). What I am sure you would agree is a positive aspect of that is that you would never have to worry about me chasing after other women. The flip side of that coin is that real men’s men like myself have to put a lot of effort into really understanding a women. Please don’t let that scare you off. I am definitely interested in and even excited about committing to that effort for the right person. I just need someone who can be patient with me as I learn exactly what things to say and do in order to fulfill all of her emotional needs.
Let me tell you a little bit about the very special young woman that I am seeking. She doesn’t need a man to complete her because she is already a complete person. Instead she is seeking another already complete individual who is very happy with his progress so far in life and where his life is currently headed with whom she can establish a team that is greater than the sum of its parts. What I mean by that is a mutually beneficial long-term partnership in which we both support each other to ensure that we are both making progress toward whatever personal and professional goals we set for ourselves. This incredible young lady is down to earth, honest and real. She will always remain young at heart because she loves to laugh and doesn’t take herself too seriously. I can’t really provide a list of specific physical characteristics that are required in order to be considered a candidate for the other half of what will undoubtedly be a dynamic duo. But, strong physical chemistry between the two of us is mandatory. I hope that doesn’t make me sound shallow. It is just that I don’t think there is much chance of two people being really happy together if there is not a strong physical attraction.[/COLOR]
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[COLOR=blue]Some characteristics I think set me apart from the herd are honesty, ambition, reliability, passion, athleticism, strong work ethic, dedication to self improvement, well educated, pretty laid back for a highly motivated individual, and open minded. I would also add tall, sometimes dark (i. e. depending on how much playing in the sun I have been doing), and devilishly handsome but since beauty is in the eye of the beholder; I do realize that not all of you young ladies will necessarily find me as physically stunning as I actually am…… lol. j/k ;)
There is one important disclosure that I need to make upfront from the gate. I am very much a man’s man (i. e. complete opposite of a lady’s man). What I am sure you would agree is a positive aspect of that is that you would never have to worry about me chasing after other women. The flip side of that coin is that real men’s men like myself have to put a lot of effort into really understanding a women. Please don’t let that scare you off. I am definitely interested in and even excited about committing to that effort for the right person. I just need someone who can be patient with me as I learn exactly what things to say and do in order to fulfill all of her emotional needs.
Let me tell you a little bit about the very special young woman that I am seeking. She doesn’t need a man to complete her because she is already a complete person. Instead she is seeking another already complete individual who is very happy with his progress so far in life and where his life is currently headed with whom she can establish a team that is greater than the sum of its parts. What I mean by that is a mutually beneficial long-term partnership in which we both support each other to ensure that we are both making progress toward whatever personal and professional goals we set for ourselves. This incredible young lady is down to earth, honest and real. She will always remain young at heart because she loves to laugh and doesn’t take herself too seriously. I can’t really provide a list of specific physical characteristics that are required in order to be considered a candidate for the other half of what will undoubtedly be a dynamic duo. But, strong physical chemistry between the two of us is mandatory. I hope that doesn’t make me sound shallow. It is just that I don’t think there is much chance of two people being really happy together if there is not a strong physical attraction.[/COLOR]
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- Guest
by Guest » Fri Oct 15, 2010 3:17 pm
[QUOTE=grimm1111;38103]I don't do online game, so I don't know the first thing. But I think anyone on this board can have a profile that's better than 99% of guys who are out there pissing in the wind.
Read the profile and ask yourself "what would a winner say?"
What would someone with a lifetime of success with women wherever he goes, what would he say? Because that's the kind of guy a girl wants to be with.
A guy like that is going to have a positive outlook on women and dating, not a negative one. Why would you have any negativity to women and dating if you get what you want all the time?
He'll be short on time. He won't check his profile that often. Appearances matter, he takes care of himself, but he's not trying to impress anyone. He never explains himself to anyone. He's in charge but he's not anal. All the things that make a guy alpha.
Think about it.[/QUOTE]
Write one for yourself and post it up then brother...
Read the profile and ask yourself "what would a winner say?"
What would someone with a lifetime of success with women wherever he goes, what would he say? Because that's the kind of guy a girl wants to be with.
A guy like that is going to have a positive outlook on women and dating, not a negative one. Why would you have any negativity to women and dating if you get what you want all the time?
He'll be short on time. He won't check his profile that often. Appearances matter, he takes care of himself, but he's not trying to impress anyone. He never explains himself to anyone. He's in charge but he's not anal. All the things that make a guy alpha.
Think about it.[/QUOTE]
Write one for yourself and post it up then brother...
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