The Importance of Day2s

[brad p.]

This post is not for everyone, but there are some guys who are working really hard out there and not getting results because of a fundamental error in strategy.

This error is overestimating the importance and impact of ONSs.

If you're looking to build your social skills and comfort level around women, doing day2s is a great way to do that. I see people thinking that the only way is:

sarging thousands of sets+ many ONSs= social skills and sexual comfort

This is one way to get there, and it is legit, but you should be open to doing lots of Day2s as well. There are many paths to the same goal, and let me give you some examples.

OK my friend the Pheromone Kid built his sexual comfort by having lots of sexual encounters in club bathrooms, so it is possible...but he did it that way because he had no choice. This guy was flat broke with no place to bring a girl back to, no car to go on a date, no money to go on a date, and had only 10 minutes worth of interesting conversation. He had no other choice but to play the numbers game and game up drunk girls for bathroom sex. It took him YEARS and YEARS to get to the point of being comfortable around women doing it this way. But it was the only way it could be done.

If you need to get there that way, sure go ahead and do that.

But for most guys on here, you don't have all those disadvantages.

I took a different path. When I was a superdork, I went out to the movies with girls. I got into relationships, and I built my sexual presence by fucking the same girl 3-5 times a day for 6 months straight.

After that, I had reduced my general level of anxiety around women quite a bit. I had this feeling inside that if I got any chick in the sack I knew I was gonna rock her world. That kind of confidence takes you a long way.

So who is this post for? It's for those inexpereienced guys who have been sarging for 6 months straight with little result, hoping to get ONSs, thinking that a ONS is going to turn your life around. It's not going to turn your life around. It will increase your confidence level a bit, but if you're getting consistent sex that's gonna do a lot more.

Even if ONSs are your primary goal in life, the path to getting ONSs should look like this

1. get sexual confidence any way you can. This includes ONSs, but also has a heavy emphasis on doing phone game and Day2s.
2. Do some relationships so you know more about women and how they think.
3. Then you'll be able to apply this community stuff better and you'll get those ONSs you thought you wanted before, but now they take on a new meaning. You're not hanging all your hopes and dreams on getting a ONS, it's just fun to have them once in a while.

Brad P.

[seannewman]

That's a great fucking point, Brad.

I think most guys start this because they want to really enjoy being around women all the time, not just when in "club-sarge-pull" mode.

I mean, fuck, don't we all want a super-hot girlfriend who makes us happy? Why fuck her only once if it's good? You're supposed to want to keep her around as long as it's good.

Personally, I love dates and dating, and don't give a rat's ass if someone else thinks that's weak. I love getting to know her for real, and building the anticipation and chemistry. I love imagining what it will be like fucking her, and how much she'll love it.

Dates are all just extended foreplay, and a lover knows that foreplay is really the very best part of sex. Enjoy it. Enjoy the whole process. That's the point.