by rez » Thu Nov 02, 2006 2:29 pm
In MY experience you have to be very carefull the way you handle the "Ideal Man" routine. If the chic was recently out of a relationship or has ex-boyfriend bagage its often best to try a diffrent routine, one that plays on the negative aspects of her relationship while promoting your qualities in her view of you. With a girl who has relationship bagage I've had more success with a routine thats focused on her having fun and doing things for just herself. Saying things like "well its good that your not sulking about it and that your able to go out and have a good time", "At least now you can focus on what you want and what makes you happy instead of worrying about what someone else wants." then you can lead into the "What do you want" style of talking, and from there you can mold her into thinking that you are what she wants. But I would go about it that way instead of the Ideal Man lines. If you get to know what she wants thats not attached to a man like security or emotional sympathy you can then begin to project your image and your body language to fit those type of traits. So in effect you become her IDEAL MAN without actually asking her to focus on a specific person. But then again those things only apply to a chic recently out of a relationship. I do apply this technique alot to all chics though because its a pretty universal technique that allows you to glean alot of info about her inner mental workings while improving your social value. So yeah thats my two cents any comments or suggestions would be much appreciated.