Tomorrow is the second day of school in one of my classes.
As I have done in two of my other classes I would like to establish myself as a sociable, interesting, and hopfully Aplha man in the class.
There are these two girls that sit in the back of this class.
They are pretty good looking.
One of them I was in a class with in HS.
I have my mind set on sitting by them tomorrow.
I do not think the one that I recognise from HS remembers me at all, but there is always that possibility.
My question here is how fast does classroom game need to move?
Any tips on what I should do tomorrow?
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by Guest » Sun Jan 25, 2009 10:23 pm
First build rapport. Do this by getting 'in sync' with one or both of them. Mirror body language.
Get Tony Robbins book/CD Personal Power or Unlimited Power if this is foreign to you.
You can do several tests with pacing and leading to confirm that you are in rapport. Again, Tony Robbins or NLP if this makes no sense.
Talk with them and just kinda shoot the shit with everyone. Be the cool guy everyone likes. How do you do this?
Match/mirror and relaxed body language whilest talking about cool adventures you've had.
Hopefully you're either smart or dumb in the class. If you're smart, they'll wanna study with you. If you're dumb, you'll wanna study with them. Since you'll be seated next to them, you're available for it.
Studying outside of class is a good idea. This is more rapport and comfort building. First meet at the library and then someone's home.
Once you've got them on the hook, try leading to dating and then to sexual topics. Don't come across as a perv. Pace them where they're at.
Another awesome thing about studying is that it also leads to parties and going out.
Don't be needy but don't be too cautious. Pace them and see where they're at. Listen to them and let them bring up subjects or interject something cool you did recently.
Be sure and add emotional flavor to whatever you bring up. Example "Have you guys been to Ghengis Grill? Man that place rocks my world. You get to pick out your own spices and then they grill it up, its awesome.
I guess I was really hungry when I went out with my friends last week because it tasted sooooo good."
Don't really use any dhv stories unless you can do them and sound congruent.
A good way to fake a story like say Gay Cats is to memorize the story but then see the images and the furry kittens in your head as you talk about it.
If you've never heard of Gay Cats, its by a PUA guy named Wilder. Its really humorous but don't do that story unless that fits your personality.
Imagine a guy just sitting there all quiet and the room is quiet and suddenly bursting into "Hey guys, check this out!! My friend's sister wants to get a TATTOO of a GUY'S NAME on her ARM!!!"
That's weird. It doesn't fit with an otherwise quiet guy.
A quiet guy would come up and use a very soft tone of voice and say "Hey I don't really understand this stuff...can we study at the library?"
A more direct cat would be like "Hey my name is Henry. Can I get your number so we can hang out?"
Its all about you and how it looks and sounds and feels, especially to her.
Girls are especially good at sniffing out incongruent behaviors.
The more REAL you are, the more REAL they are. If they start playing games, you can play games back.
But if you don't usually play games, just drop the chick right there and move on, not giving it a second thought. The most effective way to do this is with body language and not words.
If it comes to words,then I usually say "I like people who are more down to earth."
(I ramble like an SOB, don't I??)
Another thing to be aware of is objection stealing. If she tells you about the weird guy in her other class that hit on her, don't do that. Instead talk about a time when a chick did that to you.
I have a story about when a chick tried to kiss me out of the blue and how I was shocked because chicks feel like that sometimes when guys try to kiss them.
Objection stealing comes from sales. You can guess on what the issues they might bring up.
For example, "Let's go study at the library. But this is not a date." (Not serious tone but more brush off.)
It also depends on how hot the girl is. For hot chicks, "not a date" is excellent. For 6-7 range, it might actually hurt their feelings, so watch it.
You might calibrate this like this:
YOU:"This stuff is really hard. Hey, let's go study at the library."
HER: "OK."
YOU: "But this is not a date."
HER: (Looks deflated) :(
YOU: "Oh now I still love ya."
This is a long ass post!!
Now there are times when you want to play up the date. Because no one really dates anymore.
And this makes "real dates" a hot commodity. (SEE BELOW)
So after hanging out at the library or the house / apartment...Rapport is built....you looked in eachother's eyes a few times and she's wondering "why doesn't he like me?"
(incidently, you find this through being in sync as well)
YOU: "Hey I like you. You're [sweet]. When's the last time you had a REAL DATE ?" (C)2009." Because I'd like to go on one and you and I have a real connection."
Find something you both like....and done. Do that a few times continuing to build connection and attraction..and pretty soon you'll be on the couch and in the bed.
End.
** "REAL DATES" copyright 2009 by Tribulus. Examples include antiquated stuff like: Dinner and a Movie, holding hands, buying flowers.
"When's the last time you had a REAL DATE?" (C) 2009 by Tribulus All Rights Reserved.
p.s. In response to your question: "How fast does classroom game need to move?"
My response....build rapport and connection. Pace. Then lead. Time is irrelevent. You have all semester.
Get Tony Robbins book/CD Personal Power or Unlimited Power if this is foreign to you.
You can do several tests with pacing and leading to confirm that you are in rapport. Again, Tony Robbins or NLP if this makes no sense.
Talk with them and just kinda shoot the shit with everyone. Be the cool guy everyone likes. How do you do this?
Match/mirror and relaxed body language whilest talking about cool adventures you've had.
Hopefully you're either smart or dumb in the class. If you're smart, they'll wanna study with you. If you're dumb, you'll wanna study with them. Since you'll be seated next to them, you're available for it.
Studying outside of class is a good idea. This is more rapport and comfort building. First meet at the library and then someone's home.
Once you've got them on the hook, try leading to dating and then to sexual topics. Don't come across as a perv. Pace them where they're at.
Another awesome thing about studying is that it also leads to parties and going out.
Don't be needy but don't be too cautious. Pace them and see where they're at. Listen to them and let them bring up subjects or interject something cool you did recently.
Be sure and add emotional flavor to whatever you bring up. Example "Have you guys been to Ghengis Grill? Man that place rocks my world. You get to pick out your own spices and then they grill it up, its awesome.
I guess I was really hungry when I went out with my friends last week because it tasted sooooo good."
Don't really use any dhv stories unless you can do them and sound congruent.
A good way to fake a story like say Gay Cats is to memorize the story but then see the images and the furry kittens in your head as you talk about it.
If you've never heard of Gay Cats, its by a PUA guy named Wilder. Its really humorous but don't do that story unless that fits your personality.
Imagine a guy just sitting there all quiet and the room is quiet and suddenly bursting into "Hey guys, check this out!! My friend's sister wants to get a TATTOO of a GUY'S NAME on her ARM!!!"
That's weird. It doesn't fit with an otherwise quiet guy.
A quiet guy would come up and use a very soft tone of voice and say "Hey I don't really understand this stuff...can we study at the library?"
A more direct cat would be like "Hey my name is Henry. Can I get your number so we can hang out?"
Its all about you and how it looks and sounds and feels, especially to her.
Girls are especially good at sniffing out incongruent behaviors.
The more REAL you are, the more REAL they are. If they start playing games, you can play games back.
But if you don't usually play games, just drop the chick right there and move on, not giving it a second thought. The most effective way to do this is with body language and not words.
If it comes to words,then I usually say "I like people who are more down to earth."
(I ramble like an SOB, don't I??)
Another thing to be aware of is objection stealing. If she tells you about the weird guy in her other class that hit on her, don't do that. Instead talk about a time when a chick did that to you.
I have a story about when a chick tried to kiss me out of the blue and how I was shocked because chicks feel like that sometimes when guys try to kiss them.
Objection stealing comes from sales. You can guess on what the issues they might bring up.
For example, "Let's go study at the library. But this is not a date." (Not serious tone but more brush off.)
It also depends on how hot the girl is. For hot chicks, "not a date" is excellent. For 6-7 range, it might actually hurt their feelings, so watch it.
You might calibrate this like this:
YOU:"This stuff is really hard. Hey, let's go study at the library."
HER: "OK."
YOU: "But this is not a date."
HER: (Looks deflated) :(
YOU: "Oh now I still love ya."
This is a long ass post!!
Now there are times when you want to play up the date. Because no one really dates anymore.
And this makes "real dates" a hot commodity. (SEE BELOW)
So after hanging out at the library or the house / apartment...Rapport is built....you looked in eachother's eyes a few times and she's wondering "why doesn't he like me?"
(incidently, you find this through being in sync as well)
YOU: "Hey I like you. You're [sweet]. When's the last time you had a REAL DATE ?" (C)2009." Because I'd like to go on one and you and I have a real connection."
Find something you both like....and done. Do that a few times continuing to build connection and attraction..and pretty soon you'll be on the couch and in the bed.
End.
** "REAL DATES" copyright 2009 by Tribulus. Examples include antiquated stuff like: Dinner and a Movie, holding hands, buying flowers.
"When's the last time you had a REAL DATE?" (C) 2009 by Tribulus All Rights Reserved.
p.s. In response to your question: "How fast does classroom game need to move?"
My response....build rapport and connection. Pace. Then lead. Time is irrelevent. You have all semester.
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by Guest » Wed Jan 28, 2009 2:53 am
I just started classes about 2 weeks ago at a new school. I think the best thing I could have done was to have the right vibe. Being a positive, sociable, friendly person can totally make all the difference in how the women in the class percieve you. Talk to everyone, and try and be friends with everyone. Truthfully, there is really not much actual PU involved, other than good BL/being Alpha, you just have to have a confidant friendly persona and people will start to gravitate to you.
Hope this helps, ;-)
Hope this helps, ;-)
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