Compliance

[Guest]

[quote]Reward compliance, punish non-compliance. Reward with attention, punish by withdrawl of attention.

No negs, no IOD's.

Keep in mind that in order to be compliance, there has to be a demand made. The demand can be stated directly, or it can be implied. (an example of implied compliance would be that she responds to your opener. You implied that you want to talk, she complied) Implied compliance should be rewarded as well. I think the confusion comes from the fact that IOI's and implied compliance can easily be confused for one another, however they are not really the same thing.[/quote]

Grimm, I didn't want to hijack the subject of the other thread too much because i figured if I asked this there the thread would be a discussion of your technique and not the original subject.

Can you give some examples of things you do to test/guage compliance and more specifics on things you do to reward/punish?

[Guest]

I don't actively test/guage compliance because if I were to focus on that, it would put me in my head which is not where I want to be. I've tried to develop a gut feel for it. It's all about developing a sense of awareness for whether someone is trying to please you or breaking your will. I promise it's not as hard as it sounds.

As for rewards, I believe the only reward is attention, and the only punishment is withdrawl (anything else is borderline weird). For more information on this pick yourself up a book on basic behavioral science or stop by your local library.

Keep this in mind - ALL attention is a reward, and that includes negative attention.

[Guest]

I've learned the last few months that when you can't get these hookers to comply to your wishes then just withdraw your attention and put them on IGNORE. Its usually a good test to see how interested they are. If they don't reciprocate some attention and or show compliance after a few days of ignoring them, then pull the plug and onto the next.