These 4 words have gotten me laid 3 times in the last 2 months.
They seem to work best when I am texting or IMing. I first escalate or let them escalate sexually. And just when they are telling me what they want to do to me or mentioning how horny they are, I tell them "You are all talk", "I have things I am doing at the house. You are just wasting my time. Bye" or "You are all talk! You are just getting me worked up over nothing. I got things to do. Chat atcha later"
So far, 100% of the time they have asked to come over to prove to me that they mean what they are saying. No teasing, no foreplay, no LMR...they just get immediately dirty and jump me.
I think they either can't stand the takeaway or that I get them so worked up that they put all sexual objections aside and want sex so much they aren't going to make excuses. Plus, coming over to my place is a HUGE compliance test that once they pass, they don't want to screw up.
Try it! So far, it has worked every time for me.
You can verbally remind them that they are "all talk" once they get to your place to get them to initiate sex but I have found that it is most effective when you introduce this line for the first time while IMing/texting vs. in person for some reason