The Insider Internet Dating Program

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This thing is set up with a bunch of MP3 and video files where Dave M talks about and demonstrates his methods. The whole thing is set up like a web page and is viewed with your browser.

In the first part he talks about which dating sites are the best and which ones to avoid. He likes Match.com and says that the ?adult? sites are fatties and hookers. Also there?s a lot of BS about how he was an AFC, why women are on these sites (I don?t care why, I just want to meet them) and how to be a desirable guy (we already know that).

Getting to the meat, he tells you how to create a good profile. First he says to put your pics up on hot or not and use the ones that get the best score. Good advice.

Furthermore, I?d like to add that you should have a good head shot that clearly shows your face, a shot of you dressed to the 9s that shows your head and torso, a shot of you doing something interesting (playing guitar, rock climbing etc.), and at least one pic of you with one or more hot looking women out clubbing. I think a few travel pics would be great, but I don?t have any on my profile.

No pics without a shirt, no pics of you with a bunch of guys drinking beer and no pics of you with your car/motorcycle. Women don?t like this kind of thing and it can look try hard.

As far as writing you profile goes, just try not to let it sound like a resume. It?s really hard to DHV with out sounding like your bragging. So try to be subtle. You can say something like ?I?ve known many women, but now I?m looking for something more.? this suggests that women like you without saying it.

You want to sound like a challenge. Let them know that you not going to fall in love with the first girl to come along. Only that special, one in a million girl will do and you won?t settle for anything less.

Talk about your passions. Any hobby you have or interesting area of study (not pick-up unless you call it something else) is good. Be vague, and don?t give he too much information. Leave questions that she can ask you about. I can tell you that women have no game at all and need all the help they can get.

He also says it?s a good idea to end your profile with a quote of some kind.

A trick he mentions is to change little things about your profile often. Like the headline or which pic you use as your main image. This will keep you high in the searches.

When you search you want to do it twice. One for girls within a short distance and again at the limit you?re willing to drive. You?ll get different results with each search.

Something I?ve found useful is to read several men?s profiles and avoid as much of the average stuff you can. Let them know that your are not a couch potato.

Composing Your 1st Email

This is the template for a mostly cut and paste message that you send first. Dave M says to start off with something about how it feels strange to write messages to strangers followed by something about her profile that caught your eye. The first part you can send to everyone, but the second part will be different for every girl.

The trouble I?ve had here is that many women have almost nothing in their profile other than
?I?m pretty laid back.? It?s often hard to find something to ask her about. This is a good example of how women depend on looks to get men. When it comes to telling you about themselves they are at a loss. In the field there are ways to help them DHV.

Next you want to put in some kind of qualifier. ?But, if you don?t like? this relationship is doomed.? then mention something about yourself. ?I love my mother and have good teeth? is good.

Next, ask her a question or two. Something that will help her DHV for you. ?Are you adventurous?? ?What do your friends say about you?? Whatever?

Then you can end with something about how you are both there to meet people.

One thing he doesn?t mention. But I have found to be true is that you message needs to be a few lines long. At least two paragraphs, but no more than four. She?s busy and doesn?t want to read a novel, but she does want more than ?Wow! You are smoking!?

Now you?ve cast your bait and your waiting for a nibble. I?ll talk about what to do if she doesn?t reply later. For now we?ll assume she did.

2nd Email Get Her Number

Start off by thanking her for her reply.

Mention something from her message.

If she asked any questions, answer them, but be vague.

If you have a web site or something on you tube send her a link.

Tell her you?re busy and not online much and ask for her phone number.

No Reply

If you don?t get a reply after about a week send this.

Tell her you sent her a message and she didn?t reply and you want to know why. make up some outrageous reason why it could be.

You assume she?s still single because her profile is still up. You can bust on her for playing hard to get and how that is so average. Tell her you think it?s sexy when chicks go after what they want. This sets the frame that not answering you would make her average and answering you is sexy.

Repeat the things you said about yourself in the first message.

No Phone Number

So, she replied to you first message, but didn?t send you her number. Time to bust on her.

Tell her you understand. Tell her you had no idea that she was so poor her phone was cut off and if you?d known you would have put together a food drive for her. Tell her you know how tough it is to have to use the computer at the public library. You have to go way over the top with this so she knows you kidding.

Then tell her you not a killer or stalker and it?s just a phone number. If she doesn?t like you she can hang up and you won?t call more than 20 times a day.

If you still don?t get her number, move on.

Dave M says to avoid IM and don?t let it turn into an email relationship.

All the rest is phone game and dating stuff. If you don?t know what to do or where to take her there are plenty of places on this forum to learn about that.

If there are any questions I?ll do my best to answer them.

Cheers

PS

Dave M also says to write your email address at the bottom of your messages. But you have to write it like this:

Your email [at] whatever dot com

This will get through their filters. Many women don?t want to shell out any money to meet men.

It?s also good to sign with your real first name.