A concise break down of mystery method

[RockStar]

ok this is for all you new guys. I learned at the meet up that some of you didn't know the M3 model so here is a concise version.

The A stands for attraction
The C stands for comfort
The S stands for seduction

Each is broken down into three sub phases A1,A2,A3


A1-open
Her - in a situation that is better for indirect approach.
You - IOI: You are interested in some type of quick interaction while interlacing DHV/IOD: You don't show interest in friendship or intimacy and show traits that makes want to get to know you better.

A2-Female to male interest
Her - IOI: She shows interest in possibly getting to know you. Or she's in a situation where she's been introduced to you by some acquaintance. Or she's opened you with something casual.
You - IOI: You are still interested in some type of quick interaction while interlacing DHV/IOD: You still don't show interest in friendship or intimacy and continue to show traits that makes them want to be know you better.

A3- male to female interest or SOI or Qualifying (depends on the system, but they are all the same thing)
Her - IOI: She' continues to show interest in getting to know you better, while DHV/IOD: She starts to qualify herself and/or try to shit test.
You - IOI: You're still interested in the interaction, and show some interest in getting to know her when she DHV's, while toning down the DHV/IODing on getting to know her better.

C1-The move
Her - She feels she's earning your interest in her or in a situation where you go direct or she opens you with interest in you.
You - IOI: You're interested in her as a friend while interlacing DHV/IOD: You are not interested in an intimate realtionship, but show traits that makes her find you seductive.
C2- Comfort
Her - IOI: She wants to be intimate with you.
You - IOI: You're still interested in friendship, while interlacing DHV/IOD: You still are not interested in an intimate realtionship, but continue to show traits that makes her find you seductive.
C3-Move to sex location
Her - IOI: She continues to show interest in being intimate with you, while DHV/IOD: She starts to act more seductive or tries to hide romantic feelings.
You - IOI: You're still interested in the friendship, and show some interest in intimacy when she DHV's, while toning down the DHV/IODing on intimacy.

S1
Her - She feels she's earning your romantic interests in her.
You - IOI: You're interested in her as a romantic interest while interlacing DHV/IOD: You're not interested in having a sexual relationship with her, but you show signs of a good fuck. i.e. teasing/foreplay.
S2
Her - IOI: She is interested in having a sexual relationship with you.
You - IOI: You're still interested in intimacy, while interlacing DHV/IOD: You still are not interested in fucking, but continue to show traits that makes her want to fuck you.
S3
Her - IOI: She continues to show interest in having a sexual relationship with you, while DHV/IOD: She starts to show how good of a GF she is, LMR.
You - IOI: You're still interested in the intimacy, and show some interest in the sexual relationship when she DHV's, while toning down the DHV/IODing on intimacy.

I believe approporiate kino in each stage is relative to culture and context, but kissing is still part of comfort/friendship. It becomes intimate when heavy making out starts.


If you guys have any questions let me know.

-R

[Tribulus1000]

Not to be a game geek but that's actually wrong.

The Comfort (C1-3) stages are only separated by physical location.

C1 - Comfort Building location - usually a quiet spot in a bar. Usually seated, although it can be what's referred to as "mini isolation".

C2- Dating or Day2 Loop. This is meeting someone outside of the "attraction building location"

C3- This is known as "Intimacy". The location being your couch or her couch as you sit and watch a movie.

The C3-S1 phase is very close and is like saying move from couch to bedroom, although its also a head space adjustment.

It's Mystery's Method, and here's the man himself...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LJdeYrJEBec

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6I9kHPsz ... re=related

Acrtually, your breakdown of S1 - S3 is wrong as well...

Check out this post...

http://attraction-chronicles.blogspot.c ... tline.html

[RockStar]

thanks man I was doing it off the top of my head.

[x-wing]

Thanks Rockstar and Trib! I could tell that this post was probably in response to me. I was pretty vocal in admitting that I know very little technical game. Part of what sucked me into pickup was the thrill of thinking on your feet. But now that I've had over a month of approaches I've learned the necessity of structure.... Needless to say, the link Trib posted is golden. I can't wait to put some of this shit to test.