BREAKTHROUGH: NONRESPONSIVENESS

[vash]

BREAKTHROUGH: NONRESPONSIVENESS
I have just recently been reading Eckhart Tolle's power of now after reading and watching some material by this guy named Manwhore.
GENTLEMEN.
Especially guys who are BUSTING THEIR BRAINS STACKING ROUTINES AND LEARNING MAGIC AND STUFF.
A HIGH STATUS WOMAN... meaning beauty, wealth, social status, will NOT E V E R give you the time of day if you fail shit tests on your own.
What do I mean by this?
If you deliver a line, or a routine, and you happen to stutter on the punchline, or seem even mildly unsure, or you make a tiny excuse for why you're asking that 'taboo' question or statement, THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT WOMEN PICK UP ON. THIS IS WHY WE LOSE SETS. THE NATURALS UNDERSTAND THIS NATURALLY... AND MANY HAVE TRIED TO FIND A WAY TO EXPLAIN THIS, BUT IN REALITY THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT PART.


THINK TO YOURSELVES RIGHT NOW:
Every time you were blown out of a set, or a girl seemed into you, everything was going well game-wise, but at the end you receive a peck on the cheek, a push away, or a flake on your day2.
REALLY REALLY BE HONEST WITH YOURSELVES. How invested, in terms of subcommunication, and intent were you into the interaction? How much did you talk compared to how much she talked?
And when you DID talk, did you for even two seconds feel unsure while holding eye contact? Did you stutter? Did you literally say something for even 2 seconds IN YOUR HEAD like "fuck maybe i took that too far, i wonder how she'll react"?
I'M GONNA PUT IT REALLY PLAINLY.
ASSUME EVERY WOMAN CAN READ YOUR FUCKING MIND.
IF YOU DON'T BACK UP THE THINGS YOU SAY WITH 101% MEANING AND HONEST INTENT BEHIND IT, SHE WILL READ IT, AND DO ONE OF TWO WONDERFUL, TIME-TESTED THINGS: BLOW YOU OUT, OR MAKE YOU HER PLAYTHING OR THE REST OF THE NIGHT BECAUSE NOW SHE IS DOMINANT, THEN BLOW YOU OUT LATER.

Once you realize how powerful this is... MAKING YOUR REALITY/FRAME/STATE/THOUGHTS STRONGER THAN HERS, NOT FROM SOME GAME-STANDPOINT, BUT FROM THE STANDPOINT OF IT ACTUALLY BEING THE CASE, you will be able to literally say things like "So, are you down for a threesome tonight?" or "Have you ever done it up the butt?" or whatever the hell without having to WORRY ABOUT HER REACTION. It's all a question of seriously being fucking serious.
It's really so much easier than it seems..but it just literally just takes practice.
I promise you you HAVE TO STOP HAVING FEAR OF HER REACTIONS, AND STOP THINKING YOU NEED TO REACT TO EVERYTHING.

3 examples I will give you from today, hopefully you will get the jist,and they just so happen to be from 3 different branches of 'game':
An old FB who I really had a falling out with tried to call me back, and because I wasn't at the phone, she got really pissed and sent me this lovely little text message:
"V, please delete my number from your phonebook cause I am sick of your fucking bullshit. Goodbye forever."
I read this. My heart stats to beat a little faster, but then I realize, what the fuck, they are just words, just like any words. And to top it off, these aren't even spoken, they are little cyber-words on my screen.
I call her back.
v:(completely positive tone)Hey! How are you! hows Colorado! When are ya coming back to LA?"
hb:"It's fine. I'm coming in July for 2 weeks. But listen, I really don't think I should see you." (notice it became DON'T THINK I SHOULD instead of DON'T WANT TO because I didn't give her the reaction she wanted)
v: (without skipping a beat, because she is in MY world, I make the rules, and I don't even need to say them) Haha. I said nothing about seeing you, now did I? But enjoy your trip, and give me a call when you're here in July.
her: okay I promise.
click.
yawn.
Next example.
HBPersian from my class, while on the phone:
me: blah blah blah negging teasing
hb: *laughin her ass off til stomach hurts*
me: (jokey mode) ew you cackle like a witch
hb: Omg hahaha you are my gay best friend hahahaha.
me: ...
me: (reframing fast, low tonality, said slowly, matter of factly) I'm not your fucking gay best friend. If you ever say that again you can get the fuck out of here.
hmm. WONDER WHAT SHE'LL SAY.
HMM WILL SHE SAY: "omg you're rude." "omg im just kidding, get a sense of humor, asshole" "omg haha you're so sensitive"
hb: ... I'm-- I was just kidding--... I.. want to meet up tomorrow? When are you available?
OHHH THATS WEIRD. I SET THE FUCKING GROUND RULES WITHOUT COMPROMISING ANYTHING, OR GIVING A SHIT ABOUT WHAT SHE *MAY POSSIBLY HAVE THOUGHT* I STUCK TO MY BELIEFS AND SHE RESPECTED IT-BECAUSE HIGH STATUS WOMEN WILL ONLY LET *LEADERS* BUST NUTS INTO THEIR FACE. PERIOD.
Today I was taking a placement exam for a college, I was at the office:
hbArab: blah blah and heres what you need to do to--
me: Wait. you have an accent. Do you speak russia?
hbarab: no arabic. tee hee.
me: heh. when you ask all these questions, you sound like a russian robot.
hbarab: Excuse me? (disgusted, scowly, shit-test face)
me: *ahem* (very slowly) When. You. Ask. All. These. Questions. You. Sound. Like. A. Russian. Robot.
hbarab: (pause) (blush) (giggle) ohh.. hah.. well, um, haha... well i mean.. when you spend all day in this office, haha, you know.. (qualifying herself)
me: Let me ask you something. I'll be back here tomorrow. Are you going to be here tomorrow?
hbarab: Er. What? (shit-test "eh?" face again. fucking hate that shit.)
me: Aw. You're slow. Will. You. Be. Here. Tomorrow?
Hbarab: Yes.. Yes I will. I'll see you tomorrow?"
me: maybe. ciao.
PRACTICE THIS IN YOUR DAY TO DAY.
BE AWARE.
BE PRESENT.
KNOW YOUR SURROUNDINGS.
DO NOT GIVE THEM THE KIND OF WEAKLING RESPONSES THAT THEY CAN FLIP THE SWITCH AND BLOW YOU OUT WITH.
EVERY WORD YOU SAY, SIMPLY BECAUSE YOU SAY IT, IS GOLD.
IF YOU SAY "IM GONNA GO TO THE GYM 5 DAYS A WEEK" OUTLOUD, AND DON'T DO IT, IMAGINE WHAT A GIRL WILL THINK IF YOU GO "HEY, I WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU" OUT LOUD.
KNOW YOUR POWER.
HAVE YOUR POWER.
USE YOU POWER.
DON'T LET ANYONE TAKE YOUR POWER AND USE IT AGAINST YOU.
It's YOURS.