Qualifying?

[dubya]

How do you make girls qualify themselves to you?

[Craig]

In my opinion...100's of ways

What makes it so great is suddenly SHE'S trying to convince
YOU why YOU should like her. I have put some incredibly beautiful
women on the defensive...and had THEM explaining why I should
like THEM. ( haha )

[RockStar]

attraction! attraction! attraction! If you cant get her to qualify, you:

A. plow through it like a shit test.
B. return to A2 (MM)
C. give social value(tease her), Give compliance test.(which is what qualification is.)

so if you don't have enough attraction or you haven't done kino your verbal compliance test (qualification) wont stick.

my preferred method.
sometimes you will run into a chick who uses natural game herself and teases and negs you, way past the point where you should be in comfort. you should just let her know that your frame is stronger by telling her something about your self as a child or whatever you use as a comfort story. Then she wont bust on you because it will make her look socially awkward. so gain attraction, set the frame, and ignore her trying to break your frame.

in the end it's just a frame game.

[Finesse]

http://dallaspua.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=2199

I qualify much the same way in person as I have done here.

It's as simple as asking an open ended question and then geniunely being intrested in the deep answer she gives you. Most times the first answer will be a fake shraud to get you to think you are actually building comfort so that way you feel comfortable enough to start asking her if "she wants some dick with that". Get her into the state first, where she is tied into herself emotionally

Since normally shes just bidding her time, you have now broken her state and gotten her into an emotional spot, so now you may move to qualify.

Get her to actually reveal something to you that you can be intrested in and then throw out a general observation.

If you throw something out there like, "I hate when girls dye their hair."

And she responds to that with something like, "I only dye it on special occasions." She is qualifying, and that happens more than you might think.

Most PUA's I have seen who "qualify" are doing an over-qualifying job and they loose the interaction. Theres a reason why if you have ever observed a guru, they seem to just be having a natural conversation, and not picking women up. Its because they are. They geniunely have a type of girl in mind or better yet, an outcome. If the girl fits into the outcome or type they are looking for then they pursue it, if not, they ditch the girl.

In order to qualify you have to have a list of things in which you can compare it to. I would recommend making a list of traits you want in a women, commit it to memory, and from there it should extremely easy and natural to qualify.

[Tribulus1000]

The point of qualification is compliance.

In order to get compliance, we need to get a commitment. An investment.
This is straight from Cialdini.

That's why we ask a big open ended question.

When you get the answer and its good and she's invested, then you reward her by saying a very sincere compliment and showing interest.

Be sure and add the kino with this.

Once you've given the compliment, you can then move them to isolate or bounce or set up a day2.

If you encounter resistance, back off and do a takeaway. Scarcity makes them chase.

Hope this helps.

Diagram it out if you need to. I did.

[Thaddeus]

Making her qualify really isnt as hard as it sometimes seems...

Its just the same as when she makes you qalify to her you need to ask questions framed so that she is forced to answer with some sort of dhv.

Remember that just like when a girl tests you there are a number of ways you can deal with it....

OverReactive
Un Reactive
DHV building
Reverting the test

Usually to make a girl qualify to me I start off asking them questions about what makes them stand out from the rest. Of the people there...

I look at it like this get her to give you a positive and then you bridge to another positive trait she has that you see in her. Then use a generalized neg, not on her but on something that maybe you can imagine her doing.

Then reframe again on her explaining why the two of you are the coolest people in the world. This will not only DHV you while allowing her to qulify why she can be with you. But also will allow you to have repore because the two of you have more in common.