by IsiMan84 » Sat Sep 15, 2012 6:16 am
I think it's more a testament to what other PUA's you're talking to, along with your own skill. The girls in uptown are quite attainable if you're going about things the right way. Running off some lines and assuming they'll be into you, that won't happen. For sure.
There are soooooo many factors that play into success which you're probably not even considering, or they are completely out of your stratosphere of knowledge.
1. Logistics: Do you live in the area, do they live in the area, who did they come with, who are they leaving with, etc. Are you making this process streamlined? Any bumps in the road and you're dunzo. Other than a botched double pull with Triumvirate, I've only gotten a couple day 2's and zero lays in Fort Worth. Why? These girls are nowhere near as attractive as the ones in uptown so I should be cleaning up, right? But I live on the other side of DFW, and if I can't go to their place then that's a wrap. I settle for their number and then what? Try to keep the line taut until the next time I'm in Fort Worth? No thanks, tried that. The same applies to uptown. What's funny about it all, is the majority of girls I've met in uptown that I managed to get a day 2 with, lived closer to me. Not saying it's not possible to get one otherwise, but living in their neighborhood or being there often definitely helps. Do you think she's just sitting on her ass the other 5 days of the week you're not around? Nope, guys are probably taking her out. A lot.
2. Advancing the plot: I'm not sure what you're saying to these girls, but I've met guys in the community who are using the same material as guys who aren't in the community. Okay cool, you read a bunch of books, learned some methods, but then you get in front of a girl and all of a sudden you're basically just shooting the shit? Without showing any intent, mind you. Because you think she's a '10' and are afraid to make any moves. Does she like you now? Probably not. You have to lead the interaction, show intent, and do it well. With the sheer volume of guys these girls talk to, you pretty much have to offer her something the rest can't, or be her best option. Due to this, your room for error is very small.
3. Mindset/Strategy: It sounds like you're putting them on a pedestal, which is going to affect the way you approach them. 9's and 10's abound? I don't put a number on these girls, or any girls for that matter. Many of them are bangable, but I don't hold them in a different regard than anybody else in the metro. I treat the ones you consider a '10' the same as I would the ones you consider a '6'. But yea, if you're not good with groups then you might want to look elsewhere. You're not going to find a lot of lone wolves or stragglers in this part of town. You need to approach the group as a whole, determine which girl is feeling you the most and go from there. Too many guys target one girl, completely give her all the attention, and consider the rest obstacles. Your body language will show it, your words will show it, and anything else you do. If the other girls pick that up and don't approve of you, thanks for playing.