I'm in funky town too. All the cool coffee houses are gone. Like RS I'm not spilling the beans about my FAV haunts. I do just fine over here and prefer to avoid Dallas.
"Tell a woman she can't join your club and she'll do almost anything to get in."
The Lizard Lounge is a great 18+ venue and has a bar for 21+. Two dance floors, several places for good isolation techniques- smoking patio, VIP upstairs, and a room by the bathrooms. Also Tress is 18+. You can also go to The Clubhouse if you want to go for hired guns.