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online field

Posted:
Fri Oct 30, 2009 3:09 am
by Alger
Lately I have been on match.com to practice routines. As I have created stuff based on some PUA tips, I have had mainly girls tell me they are not interested. Most of the time before that I didn't get a girl just say they are not interested. They would just not respond to my emails if they weren't interested. Does this mean that PUA does not work on a site like match.com which usually appeals to those looking for serious dating? Or does online game just not work? If anyone wants to give me feedback and would like to see some of the emails I sent out please let me know.
Re: FR: online field

Posted:
Fri Oct 30, 2009 10:18 am
by Scoundrel
Online is hard. But, I see it as one more hook in the water. You could try telling her that she isn't your usual type either, but you thought you try looking past all that. This is a subtle neg hit suggesting she may be shallow.
the thing about online is that you can just wait a few months and try her again. she likely won't remember you. But, my success rate online has been hit and miss. I haven't found anything that works consistently. Maybe it's just the mood she's in when she reads my messages?
Re: online field

Posted:
Thu Nov 05, 2009 2:52 pm
by Cowboy QB
I'm not sure about match.com, but I have had plenty of success closing on girls with eharmony. I put a lot of effort into creating a good looking profile at the beginning and then I just sit back and wait for the girls to start contacting me. I usually don't search for girls or read their profiles until after they have viewed my profile and contacted me first. Otherwise it gets too time consuming.
I think there is definitely a place for online game, you just have to be patient with it.
Scoundrel's description of it being one more hook in the water is dead on.
Re: online field

Posted:
Sun Nov 08, 2009 3:12 am
by Alger
Both tips are good. Especially since it is such a time consuming process why try and change it.