Met a HB in a chat room over a month ago. She gave me her cell # just as I was leaving to go out of town (went to Reno/Lake Tahoe) right before Thanksgiving. I've talked to her several times, and have text messaged. Most of the time I've kept it short. She sent me a pic where she isn't smiling. I accused her of not smiling because she must have a big gap in her front teeth. So I've nick-named her "gap". I'm always calling her by that and she hates it. She's much much younger than I am (She's legal, don't worry). I talked to her on my way home from a party last Saturday night and told her I wanted to meet up with her on Wednesday. She agreed. She said she was forced out of her house (long story) and lives with a guy. I asked her if it was her bf and she said "I don't know". Apparantly she told this guy about wanting to meet up with me on Wednesday (She's not exactly the sharpest tack in the box, obviously). I got the idea that this girl has met strangers (real psychos) off the internet before and might have gotten into some sort of trouble or near trouble with them. The guy friend wants to meet up at Starbucks too just to make sure I'm not a psycho (What a nice guy, eh?). Oh joy. Before, I told the girl that if she wasn't weird, after coffee, we'd go see Christmas lights at Interlochen in Arlington. She liked that idea. For those of you who don't know, Interlochen is a housing edition in NW Arlington where nearly every house is extravagantly decorated for Christmas. This is a yearly thing. There's always a lot of traffic and it takes a couple of hours to drive through and see everything. According to the girl, once the guy sees I'm not psycho, we can leave and go do our own thing. The girl told me she hadn't really thought that I was a psycho but after talking to the guy and her previous experiences she thinks it's best. She kept assuring me that based on our conversations she didn't think I was psycho. The girl seems really into going out, but the guy seems to be the jealous, over-protective AFC friend. I talked to the guy on the phone and got the impression that he was a little intimidated and didn't like the idea of me taking the girl to see Christmas lights after our "coffee date". After talking to the guy I told the girl that if he was that concerned then maybe we should just forget the whole thing and that it had been nice talking to her for the last month or so. She was insistant that we should meet up and that the guy "could just go home" after coffee. We shall see.
Hey Slider, this is the girl I was telling you about at Reatta....I wasn't exactly sure if I should or shouldn't....you said to go for it......if you remember.
I'd appreciate suggestions on how to handle the over-protective AFC (or at least he seems to be AFC right now - could be AMOG type but I doubt it). Would it be best to try to AMOG the guy or "win him over" with DHV stuff? Please try to respond by 5 PM Wednesday (today, 12/20).
Thank you,
JB
Thanks,
JB