). Though just the other night, I have hit pay dirt. Women are e-mailing me like cwazy (That’s crazy with a W), plastering me e-mails and even those online flowers some sites have, all without me initiating any contact. Creating a good profile is key. Before I did not have a problem meeting girls online, then F-closing offline, many times at the first offline meet. Though to have all these HB’s open me, this is like shooting ducks in a barrel – and much less effort. I will not mention what exactly is on my profile (as you want to create your own in order to be congruent). Though I have hit on something here and thought you guys might want to know HOW to duplicate this success. I will go through the same process to help with your online gaming.
1) Create fake shill
I had set up a shill, a fake female online profile. To maintain authenticity, I copied and pasted a HB’s profile from another state. It is important to know what women go through online.
2) Gather information
After setting up the shill, I experienced what females go through, what type of guys are out there, and the mistakes most make. After reading all these AFC’s emails my shill was smothered with, I found the most common mistakes guys were making which later I could use to differentiate myself from them. I also gained an enlightening, women’s perspective on online game. Do not pass this step; create a shill to understand women and the competition.
3) Pick you pic carefully
After having a few photos rated (hotornot.com has a good rating service) I find the one that makes the best impression. It is of one that features me in another country, which is good for all women say they love to travel. When you make the shill in step 2 and see some of these guys, you will be wondering wtf they were thinking. Just think of the movie, "Deliverance".
4) Differentiate yourself in the headline
I pointed out in my headline that I do not do what is one of the most common mistakes other guys make. Women identified with this. They saw me as a guy who “got it”. This differentiating was enough to have an initial flurry of e-mails, more than I usually receive. This is significant as men do MUCH more e-mailing than women do, so all women need to do is sit back and wait. It is nice to turn the tables and have the women e-mailing you.
5) Differentiate yourself in the profile
In the profile, again I show that I do not have this negative characteristic and briefly expand upon it. Then I point out that I should not need to show that I do not have these negative characteristics though after hearing what the other guys do, felt is was necessary. Stating I heard it implies that I am already talking to other women. If other women are talking to me, I must be ok. Also, stating I should not have to point these things out shows I am a bit uncomfortable about any type of bragging. As you know you don’t want to brag! I reinforce this concept with a quote I placed at the end of the profile. I mention my pic is recent and was taken in Montreal. To present a sense of adventure and spontaneity, I also say I went up there on a last minute impulse to see snow.
The next paragraph I disqualify myself stating that I have a busy schedule and if they need a man there all the time, they may want to look elsewhere. Then I point what I want in a woman, using some chick crack key words such as “travel”, energy”, etc. indicting I am picky. I precede this stating similar people attract similar people, implying that I have all these characteristics, too, effectively killing two birds with one stone.
Finally, as mentioned earlier, I point out a quote by a prominent person of the past communicating the idea that actions speak louder than words and one should need not brag to show the positive attributes he has.
The entire profile was brief, keeping the mystery, while sub-communicating a wealth of information.
6) Sit back and wait
As you know, it is much easier to game when you are open, offline or online. So sit back and wait for HB’s e-mails such as:
WowYou sound great, and from what I can tell, you look pretty great too. I must tell you, and I bet I'm not the first, that you misspelled Montreal. Unless you really did go to Monteal
I do have small children, so travel(and just about everything) takes on a whole new meaning...although I am Not one of those women that likes to bring them on dates, or use them as some sort of approval gauntlet. (although they're only 2 and 3, so hopefully you'd make it)
Other than that, I just couldn't pass up saying hi...You never know unless you try.
Patty
I LOVE THAT QUOTE!!!!
i thought your rprofile had a lot of personality in it so i wanted to drop in and say hi. i travel a bit as well...for work. so i think you may be right up my alley. check me out if you would like.
have a groovy day kiddo!
oh....ALL of my pics are VERY recent.
An online flower I received. Awww, how sweet
I have used some strategies preached by seasoned and professional PUAs with some success, though none as effective as this. It was successful because in addition to saying all the right things, it was congruent. And you must be congruent. Females can smell contrived miles away.
Cheerio,
Mojo
