I wanted to post an IM chat I had with a girl I met on facebook. That's right, I met her on facebook. This was the first time I had ever talk/emailed her. I wanted to post this text and see if the true PUAs of this forum could give me some critique/advice. I am not a PUA, but more of an AFC. I tried using some DD stuff and cocky/funny. So here it is, don't rip me too hard fellas.
(I first saw her post on my aunts page.)
ME: how do you know my aunt sherline? too cute to be a cousin. thank god.
HER: LOL, you are sweet! Where do you live?
ME: Dallas. Are you from Boise?
(24 HOURS LATER AFTER I SENT A FRIEND REQUEST TO REINITIATE THE CONVERSATION)
ME: Hi! Thanks for accepting my friend request. I think you and me should be pen pals. What do you think?
HER: I think that would be awesome! I think you know where I live now... Haha! What do you do in Dallas?
ME: There's lots to do in Dallas, I really like it here. I love sports so I go to Dallas Mavericks games, Cowboys games, and I really like the music and arts scene here. I'm getting my new apartment really close to downtown so I can be closer to all my favorite areas.
HER: Wow, sounds exciting! I think I might go to Dallas for work sometime. I have never been to Texas! You are from California though, right?
ME: You should come out here! That way I won't have to come up to Seattle and kidnap you.
HER: I have never been kidnapped before... is that pretty fun? LOL
ME: Only if you're nabbed by me.
HER: a pretty bold claim to make, i love it!!
ME: Yeah I usually show my hostages a good time.
HER: that's awesome... hehe...so you are pretty playful, eh? we have one thing in common!
ME: Yeah we seem to click, I bet we have more to talk about.
HER: you mean, to write about... we are supposed to be pen pals, remember?
ME: You ARE playful, I love it.
HER: let me send you a few of my "playful" photos...
(beat)
HER: ... I WAS JOKING HAHAHA...
ME: DAMMIT!!!
HER: LOL just wanted you to smile
ME: ear to ear sweetheart
HER: cute!
HER: how old are you?
ME: guess...
HER: younger than i am, i think
HER: in your mid-twenties?
ME: close, 28. u?
HER: 29
ME: i would of guessed 22.
HER: thanks! i guess good nutrition and no stress helps
HER: and i would have thought you looked younger as well, though i knew you were older from knowing your family
ME: are you stalking me? you going to kidnapp me?
HER: you wish... i treat my victims like kings
ME: so you know how to treat a man right.
HER: i love them long time... oops just kidding!!!!! (she's from thailand btw)
ME: awesome, I am cracking up!
HER: TOTALLY KIDDING! please forgive me!
ME: you just made my night.
HER: yay! and you made mine
ME: On that note, I am going to say goodnight. It's 2am and I have to work in the morning.
HER: talk to you later. have a great night and an even greater day at work tomorrow!
ME: I hope to speak to you again real soon. Nite.
HER: likewise, nite nite
*Like I said don't rip into me too hard. But any advice would be appreciated from some experienced PUAs.
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