facebook) are valuable tools when it comes to meeting women online.
Here are just a few of their uses:
-Initiate new conversation
-Re-engage a woman who has fallen off
-Demonstrate value
-Disqualify unsuitable matches
-Exhibit personality
-Increase perceived social standing
I personally receive close to 1,000 views per month by women on my
MySpace blog alone. Within the first three times of meeting a women
from MySpace or Facebook she usually comments on at least one of my
blogs. What does this mean? It means that while I sleep, workout, or
am even on a date my blog is attracting women for me all over the
world. Is this really a tool you want to be without? I didn't think so.
So what does a successful blog look like? Below I
am going to show you two of the blogs I receive the most response
with. After you read them notice how it leaves you feeling. Are you
smiling, laughing, pensive, nodding your head yes, disagreeing, angry?
How does it shape your opinion of the person who wrote it? Does it
make you like the person more or less? Does this seem like the kind of
person you would want to hang out with or introduce to your friends?
Can you see this person as adding value to your life in some way?
Why am I asking you to do a 7th grade english class exercise? Because
I want you to start seeing what a woman sees. When she is reading
through you profile, looking at your picture selection and responding
to your messages all these thoughts are going through her mind. When
all the clues, intuitions, and feelings are added up it determines if
she is going to actually meet up with you or not.
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Here's an example of two blogs/bulletins that I receive very high response from women from.
Example #1
Why I'm Still Single
Current mood: determined
People keep asking me why I am still single? After all I am:
-An attractive Fellow
-Confident in my own identity
-Socially Savvy
-Keep in great shape
-Highly educated
-Have many beautiful women in my life who I care about
-Safe and Trustworthy
-Often the center of attention (cause I'm a fun dork)
-A rescuer of Orphaned sheep
-Mysterious and Deep
-Ambitious
-Well traveled
-Loved by Dolphins and various other woodland creatures
-Successful
-Pee your pants funny (but don't please that's gross)
-Artistic
-Romantic
-Loyal, Compassionate, Optimistic, etc etc etc
The list goes on and on. Some of you may think I am being cocky right
now. Fair enough, I often have a tendency to be cocky but it is always
in a playful way. Trust me, I do not take myself THAT seriously.
However, I have worked hard to be the person I have become and I
continue to every day. I have committed to continually striving to
become the absolute best I can be for me and for those I love.
So why am I still single? A friend of mine sent me over an application
and one of the questions was as follows:
Fill in the blank: I like a girl that__________
Here was how I answered:
I like a girl that knows who she is, knows what she wants, is kind and
compassionate but not weak, sassy and intelligent, knows when to say
sorry and when to hold her ground, clever and sociable, outgoing with
substance, secure with her body and sexuality, graceful and elegant,
intuitive and curious, adventurous and dorky, beautiful beyond
compare, crazy about me, knows how to please me in bed and always up
for trying new things, a world class cuddler, supportive, has her own
life and friends, picks up on subtle hints and comes up with great
surprises, able to rough it, optimistic and devoid of complaint,
flirty and flexible, knows how to prioritize her life, let's go of the
past and moves forward, takes time to figure herself out so she stops
making the same mistakes over and over, in touch with her emotions but
not overly emotional, creative, able to agree to disagree and
acknowledge both sides of an argument, takes naughty pictures and
sends them to me when we are apart, generous, fierce, will be a great
mother when the time comes, takes care of her body for her, for me and
for our future children, has a strong-healthy sex drive, solid in her
identity but always open to new ideas to continue growing as a person,
has nice round perky breasts with proportionately shaped nipples (
hey, I know what I want), makes excellent sex noises, has passion in
her kisses, finds beauty in her surroundings no matter where she is,
loves to travel, spontaneous, able to make her own decisions
independent from what her friends and family think, takes risks,
unwilling to settle for anything but the best in life (that's me:) and
over all is a kick ass awesome person.
So as you can see I am still single because that kind of woman is
harder to find than a mermaid in the desert. Perhaps I have already
met her, or she is in Finland and I will meet her on my next voyage
around the world? Maybe she is reading this right now?* Who knows? But
when she does find me I know she will appreciate how picky I am and
all the work I've done in shaping the perfect man for her.
* If so stop reading this right now and get over here into my arms!
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Example #2
Note: I found this on someone else's MySpace blog and modified it to
suite me. So don't feel like you have to make up ALL your own stuff.
Just make sure it fits with your own personal style and personality
and that you give credit if need be.
On Blowjobs
Current mood: annoyed
Category: Romance and Relationships
Ladies read and learn
So I just woke up from a terrible dream.
On one hand, It was good because it was a sex dream...on the other
hand, it was a dream about a girl who couldnt give a blow job to save
her life.
This sparked something in me.
A few weeks ago I took a blow job class with a gaggle of amazing
chicks because I thought it would be funny, make for a good story and
hey, who wouldnt want to be the straight guy in a room full of girls
simulating fellatio on dildos for an hour.
The conclusion I've come to is this; most girls give TERRIBLE blow
jobs. Yes, that probably means you...
But what's funny is when asked, most girls will respond with, "ooh, I
give the BEST blow jobs, I mean, the dudes tell me I'm the best ALL
the time."...but how can this be when MOST girls give sub-par blow
jobs yet you all walk around thinking you're doing something great?
You're like pizza to boys...because even bad pizza is still
PIZZA...well kinda.
And honey, just because some boy came in your mouth in less than 5
minutes doesn't necessarily mean you were doing ANYTHING right.
Unfortunately most boys (and I do mean boys) will be 'somewhat' happy
if you let him jam his dong in something wet for a couple minutes,
DESPITE what "skillz" you think you have.
So what I want to do is set it straight. To let you know what guys
REALLY think, just so you don't embarrass yourself the next time
you're patting yourself on the back after you've taken a shot to the
mouth, all the while the guy leaning back is thinking, "I mean, it's
awesome that I actually got to cum, but damn if I didnt have to
concentrate." Think of it this way; when a guy goes down on you, how
much skill and technique do YOU require? -exactly-
Now, just because men are one track, single minded cretans doesn't
mean we don't know the difference between a go-bot and a transformer.
First of all, this kissing and teasing around the area.
Ok fine, we'll humor you for a while because we think it's cute you
think you're being sensual (actually it can feel pretty amazing at
first if you are any good and listening to our bodies) but listen, you
have a minute to have that bad larry in your mouth before we start
getting frustrated...and NOT in a good way.
I know you're thinking, "ah, fuck him, he should WANT it, he should be
BEGGING to have it in my mouth." Totally understandable, but while you
think you're TEASING him, he's thinking, "are you fucking serious?
this girl better have a golden fucking mouth with a 6 inch tongue that
can lick my balls while going all the way down on me." Otherwise, this
is potential to lose momentum or strength in the erection. Both that
can cause post lackluster sex. All I am saying is get to it. Realize
we are not the same as you and don't need all the build up.
Second - Teeth.
You would think the first thing a girl learns while sitting at the
lunch room table is the NO TEETH rule.
yeah, you would think...obviously not. If you're incapable of taking
the sharpest part of your body and razoring it up and down the shaft
of the most sensitive pulsating appendage of the male body, don't do
it. Don't subject yourself to the ridicule and snickers you will hear
at your expense once your 'victim' has, AND WILL tell every dude
within a 3 county area that you, are in fact RETARDED at blow jobs.
This is the part in the 'choose your own adventure' book where you
opened the door to the lair of dragons and you died. Cash in your
sexuality card right now because i don't know ONE guy out there who
will claim a girl is amazing or even GOOD for that matter if shes
still pulling amateur 8th grade moves.
Third, yes, the head of the penis is a bit sensitive, but not as much
as you lollypop suckers would like to think. Put it this way, when
guys jerk off, which is the ultimate form of selfish sexuality, have
you EVER seen a guy just polishing the tip? No. So why should you?
It's nice when you need to take a break from the ol' up and down but
if that's your whole technique, go download some jerk off porno, grab
yourself a pad of paper and a pen and start taking notes, missy.
Which leads us to our fourth main topic: The ol' up-n-down.
This is the meat and potatoes of it all. This is where your MAIN focus
should be. Polish the tip, go to the balls if you need a break (don't
worry, we're getting there) but goddamn I can't stress this more, us
watchin you bobbing up and down is one of the most awesome sites a guy
can witness. Trust me. I saw the grand canyon and got bored after 15
minutes. How you execute this is personal preference. What I find
most guys will agree with is both hands must be involved. Simple
equation: more hands=more stimulation. We love jerking off, so why not
combine our two favorite things; jerking off and blow jobs. Are you
getting it now? I prefer one hand GENTLY massaging the balls while the
other is loosly gripped along the base of the shaft moving in
conjunction with the mouth. Another small detail I've noticed is
pulling the dong down. A penis naturally stands 'erect' and most girl
want to go 'up' to it, not too sure why but when it's pulled down
(don't break it trying to downshift toward the ground, just a bit more
out) its seems to make it that much more intense.
How you women haven't learned this one yet I will never understand?
Get involved, put some SPIT on that sucker (cause there's nothing
worse than when some poor girl thinks she's doing an amazing job while
you're writhing in pain from her indian burn cock gobble), commit,
look at that sucker and think to yourself, "I am going to try and KILL
you with this blow job, like chris rock said, "I want a chick to suck
my dick like its got the antidote."
Fifth - ball area.
Yes, play with the balls, you have our permission...but I feel you
should know a few things. Balls are sensitive, huffing them down your
throat, sucking with all your might does NOT feel good. That face
we're making isn't one of pleasure, it's one of, "holy fuck, there's
only a thin layer of skin between potential future children and her
gargling on my nuts." Chill out, a little goes a long way. Also, while
you're down there keep a hand or two on the dong, he will feel
neglected when the attention is diverted from him. The 'taint' area
(or area between the balls and the ass) is different from dude to
dude. Give it a try and see how he reacts.
Last and absolutely the MOST IMPORTANT - intensity and commitment.
Let me explain it like this; how would you feel if your dude came home
from work after a long day and you had made him this wonderful meal
and when he walked through the door he responded with a total lack of
enthusiasm, "eh, thanks. i'll eat later."
You'd be bummed.
But what if he walked through the door and said, "holy mother of all
that is awesome, I don't give a shit if I'm tired or not, I can't wait
to eat all this amazing food you made for me!"
You'd be stoked and excited.
Obviously this works both ways. See, when I go down on a girl it's
because I HAVE to. Because I'm so compelled that I just have this
intense urge to taste her...but if I don't see the same passion and
commitment, it will show in your performance. Try and fake it all you
want, but we can feel the difference. I'ts like the friends episode
when Rachel made the meat pie and everyone pretended to like it so as
not to offend her, it shows in your conviction and enthusiasm.
So grab that the little bastard like it's going to be the last dick
you'll ever suck and pretend you're on a game show that rewards you
with cash and prizes for your effort...because when im going down on
you, I'm planning on winning the goddamn Hawaiian vacation!
Let me speak on behalf of all guys, please do us all a favor and pass
this one on.
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Now get out there and post some kick ass blogs so that you too can be
attracting women in your sleep.
cheers,
Kelly
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