TXT messages and Cinco

[Guest]

Through my social circle, I ended up meeting a girl who everyone called some bird name. I told her the name didn't work for me, and I was going to call her Gummi Bear. She digged the name, and in fact, a few people in the circle have started calling her that.

Anyway, the day after I met her, I sent her a text, and I received no response. I figured, oh well, no big deal.

Fast forward about a month, and I decide I am going out to a club this next Thursday just to have some damn fun, and I send a mass text to my social circle. Now, I have no game yet when it comes to flirting by text either, but I figured this would be as good of a chance to start as any. Names have been, of course, edited in ~~ marks.

T: I am thinking church thursday. Interested?
GB: I have finals is this sky
GB: who es this
T: Was crashing. S' ~Amaranth~, gummi bear. I sent the invite to my ~friend~ list
GB: oh hey well since its you i would love to in to the church
T: Sounds good. Pick you up thursday around 9
GB: Okay sweet just you and me?
T: Aww girl. I'm not that easy. ~friend~ will be there to chaperone.
GB: Chaperone? Is one needed i would love to see ~friend~ though
T: :-> Ya never know. ~friend~ is always fun to hang around.
GB: Hm well are you attracted to me?
T: You seem fun and I think you have a fascinating energy to you. But the better question is why you find me so attractive? ;-)
GB: Who es to say i did<:)>
T: Lol. Okay, Gummi Bear. The wedding is soo off. Elvis will be so dissapointed. And I think I can get a refund on the tickets to Bora Bora.
GB: Lol dats amusing
GB: I think you are an interesting guy i would like to get to know you better.
T: Well, there is always google. But if you like a more intimate approach, I'm around from time to time.
GB: What do you mean by intimate
T: Less than clinical. Closely Personal. Getting to know eachother.
GB: In a physical sense as well?
T: Twas not my initial meaning, but you keep seeming to think about it :-> I need comfort and trust before I can do that.
GB: Agreed
GB: I didnt mean to offend
T: What would make you think I was offended? I am anything but.
GB: Just didnt want to come across as oh I don't know having a problem thinking.
T: Lol. Been there. Not offended, though. Heh. You are cute.
GB: You asked me once if i was a top or a bottom can i ask what you are?
T: A switch. I tend to do top a lot, but at times it is fun to be a bottom. Haven't met the right top or bottom to make me choose one or the other.
GB: Right on
GB: So talk to me tell me something about your self
T: I'm a fascinating man. I love the moon, rain, and dragons blood incense. I like good scotch and absinthe. I like to play games, have adventures, and try new things.
GB: That does sound fascinating
T: Tit for tat, my dear. Tit for tat ;-)
GB: Im a humble person i like listening to others i love ideas and the way people express them i would secretly like someone to spoil me once id never ask
T: Very cool. I love hanging out with friends and when people start discussing ideas and philosophies. It's great when ideas are debated and discussed, not argued.
GB: He yes i love watching the reactions of energy as people speak i dig mellow convo

Then later:

GB: The music is Fucking great tonight
T: Where are you at, and what music is it?
GB: At afterlife they are playing drum and bass
GB: It is nice

As you can see, there are a few lines that some of you may recognize, as I lifted them from some of you, and I think they helped a bit. I feel I did fairly well here, though I failed to act in a few key places. As always, advice is welcomed.

Now, on to Cinco. Cinco was a cluster for me. I went to the Mystery/Matador engagement in DFW, then after, I bounced to Dukes with some of the guys. I'd been up for 40 or so hours by this time, and I was dragging. I spent the first 40 minutes dragging ass and wandering. The tiredness, combined with massive AA (stupid, no? I was with a group of 10 or more people!) made me skittish as all hell. It was pretty obvious to just about everyone there.

Finally, I told myself before I left, I'd at least open 5 sets, and I did.

Of course, I failed to bring across a great energy, and I failed to do some things like time constraints, or a good jump of threads. This led to 1 set laughing and having fun at my opener, but not latching, and 4 sets quickly blowing me out, with me too paralyzed to do much at all.

So, me, I dragged my ass home, and crashed. Happy Cinco.

[Guest]

haha, pretty nice on the texting there. I've had to really step up my texting game. Being 18, I tend to go for similar aged females, and teen girls seem freaking addicted to texting, lol. But you handled that like a pro sir. Great job.

And Cinco...you had some legitimate reasons for being out of it. Don't worry 'bout it. I liked the concept of forcing yourself to open 5 sets, even if you knew it wouldn't go too well. I think I'm going to start implementing that. Thanks man, hope your next outing is more successful!

[Guest]

Speed it up... when you are getting buying signals.. I think. Sometimes put it on the line and don't worry about cya yourself or looking bad. If it's not there.. hey sweety, no big deal... next time ( have attitude next ) or (it's just not right now )...

I think you could have f-closed her from that text. She asked if you liked her.. she asked if physical as well... and then she said she wished someone would spoil her.. and added.. ONCE... I'D NEVER ASK! ( Meaning you have to do it. )

I think you could have been over there that evening with massage oil, candle, and wine. If that was your goal?

Good job.. I think you got more than waved home... and I usually don't hesitate to seal the deal on those.

Last weekend.. I was texting with beautiful latin girl.

BC: abreme.
ME: What?
BC: open me.
ME: What does that mean?
BC: you are learning spanish too fast. don't worry.
ME: I would if only you would give me the key ( still hoping it mean you know what )
BC: The door is open.. are you outside? ( I had just dropped her off )
BC: I'm joking..
ME: So dont joke next time :)
BC: ;-)
BC: So.. send me text when ever you like. :-$
ME: Ok.. : ) you too.
ME: good night and delete those messages
BC: why? I want to see them tomorrow
ME: because, you get to see me! :) :)
BC: OK!!!!!!!!!!!

She speaks small english.. and I'd only met her 2X. No kiss.. nothing. Next time I see her.. it was on. I love text! I must add... I was EVEN very conservative with this girl.. because.. * SHAMEFULLY * I know her brother!!!! Haha.. and if I stay there.. he would see my car parked out front all night from his place across the street!!!

I guess I just want to see you have crossed the line with the spoil me comment she made... something as simple as, oh.. you wouldn't have to ask me. Everyone in the community thinks they have to DHV all the time. Sometimes... at some point you have to face potential rejection.