I have noticed many posts lately where people have opened sets and been called out on the show. I also had a similar experience the other night, but I was not using a canned routine. My buddy was the one that got called out on it, (he basically did the ?hey this shit is not free? when the chick touched him) and we basically responded with ?oh yea, we love that show,? to try and take the wind out of the fact that they were calling him out.
I think it is time that we all start to contribute more original material to the forum. I have seen a lot here and there, but it seems that most people are still using canned openers, the cube, 5 questions ect? on a regular basis.
And yes these are good when you are starting out, but they get old quick, and now everyone who watched VH1 knows them! I have found that it doesn?t matter whether you do the cube or ?5 questions,? the most important thing is that you stand out. You have to come across as fun. Women will love you if they always expect surprises from you.
This is true in relationship mode as well, whether it is serious or just a mLTR. It is not some complicated psychological phrasing; it is mostly the subconscious things that build attraction, like body language, confidence, and curiosity.
Women want to be entertained. When you open a set, you are basically naked on a stage in front of them and you must perform. However, you must not show them that you are acting; the best actors are the ones who don?t even look as though they are acting. They come across as characters in and of themselves.
It is natural for men to approach women, and contrary to how they act, they want us to approach them. But guys, come one, you have to be unique!! All of the Classic mystery stuff is out in the open now. It is basically dead because many women know it. I have seen some great original stuff on the forum. I suggest we organize a sort of group brainstorm for more original ideas. -ULTRA
