Dallas PUA

I was opened four times last night, and I successfully opened a group of girls. Two of the girls that opened me had a man with them there. One I reflexively put my arm around her as soon as she came up during last call.

In the moment I forget, though, that just like a guy might go up to a girl with an excuse, that when a girl comes up to you with something stupid it's for a reason. I have to drill that into my head and understand that I have to react with the same energy as if I was the one that was opening. That is a real big one for me. I don't know how many girls I could have fucked had I followed that principle. It's all inner game but that's what I'm about. I was really kicking myself when I saw that 9 get into her car by herself.

As far as the group of girls I opened, I was introduced to everyone by the leader who was the best looking out of all them (about an 8 lol), and then I told them I was a photographer and took pictures of them. I'm really good at getting people in the right moment when they are caught of guard, which results in an emotional response from them which in turn results in better pictures, not to mention a light, happy mood from the subjects. Right when the rapport was building, I got hungry and went to get something to eat. I wonder if that was an act of self-sabotage. I really was hungry, though.

Nice field report. I think you're pretty much answering your own questions here. Definitely going in the right direction, you just need to figure out what works best for you. Some will say to continue building rapport, others would recommend pulling away a bit once the rapport is being built. Just do some trial and error, and see what helps take the BlueBalls away from BlueBalls

Thanks, Blue's Clues.

BlueBalls wrote:Right when the rapport was building, I got hungry and went to get something to eat. I wonder if that was an act of self-sabotage. I really was hungry, though.

I get hungry every hour. I mean really hungry. Like I'm starving right now. It's a great FTC (except that it's not F!) to say "well im starving, i've got to go get some food now" and sometimes it turns into a venue change when they ask to come along. Now then, I'm going to go make myself a protein shake.

Last night was a huge success! I was an opening machine (compared to my previous self) I did about 10 approaches got plenty of IOIs and no IODs and a shit test (which I failed btw) but it was great because all I needed was to open. for the longest time, I was drawing blanks on what I'd open with (I obviously ended up figuring something out) I'd come to a girl who's texting and be like:
"Hey, you're doing it all wrong"
her: ??
me: "people don't come out to a party to text... who are you texting? your mom?" and I'd get all kinds of IOIs "I like your shirt" and they'd ask my name, ect I haven't figured out how to transition or anything, so I'd only last a few minutes before ejecting. Next time, I'd be ready to go further...

I was really proud of you last night, bro. Once you got over that 1st set...I could see the mental change in your facial expressions.

I have said it many times before, The cell phone texting opener is MONEY =P

good job, a lot of people werent really opening sets so kudos