My First Day2 Meeting

[El Fenix]

I had been having a problem with getting Day 2's. I probably still do.

I met this girl and her obstacle friend from Houston, who were in town this weekend. I met them Sat. night at Idle Rich Pub. I was talking with a couple of people in the downstairs bar area, and 2 girls walked up next to me, almost like they knew the other people I was talking to. We got to talking for a bit, and the bar lights came on. I didnt have time to isonlate, or kiss close unfortunately. I got her number, and set up a day 2 under the reason of showing them around Dallas. I txted them on my way home, to help to lock in the Day 2.

All does not end well that starts well though. I brought a good friend in on it and we met up last night at Idle Rich Pub at about 10PM. They show up not as a 2 set, but a 4 set. They brought 2 of their friends. I'm thinking, "this is gonna be awesome."

For some reason, they had a DJ there last night, and it was LOUD. Very hard to talk. The girls started ignoring me, and when I tried to pull my target outside to talk, there was nowhere to sit. They ignored us both completely after that.

My post game analysis is that I hadnt set up enough of a connection the night before. I didnt isolate, kino much, or kiss close. That might have set me up for success. Instead I played concierge to these girls and got left by the wayside. You live and learn.

[Rhody]

The first thing I thought when reading your report is that a pub is a meeting location, not a comfort location. Did you feel like you were still in the attraction stage when you set up the day2?

[quipster]

not very much detail to go on but here is my take. I would have venue changed once or twice. Since you might be moving a group I would definetly befriend everyone and show you are the leader. Remember you are showing them around. They will follow.

PLAN YOUR DAY 2's... Infact always have your "day X" (even first night) planned out to help with your success. A new longer post for a later time. so here is what I do briefly to make things smooth.

Know where you are going. Several bounce locations and make each one closer to your final/sex location. At each location know where to move them for fun/comfort/seduction

-Quipster