Day2 with woman from work

[jast]

We meet up at my house; she was waiting for me there since I get off work later then her.

Me: Hay I got to put some stuff up you it will only take a min
Her: ok

We go in side she starts looking around checking thinking out. I grab 2 pens and put up my back pack and grab a snack.

Me: Hay you hungry?
Her: yeah
Me: heads up (I throw her a pack of cookies)
Her: (puzzled look)
Me: They are good and we have to get going we may be late.

We get in the car and I start driving to the meeting. I try and start a conversation but nothing is working. My mind is locking up all I can think is " Danm it I don't want to miss this up" Then I remember I am getting to attached to the out come if I can't have a good talk with this girl then no big deal just move on.

Me: ok let’s get you ready let’s play a game
Her: ok
Me: OK you have to say the first thing that pops in your head no censoring it name 2 action movies that have not been made. I will go first. (I name some thing I don't remember what) ok your turn
Her: UM UM (she comes up with 2)
Her: Ok where are we going?
Me: LOL you really want to know.... ok since it is kind of different we are going to a Toasted masters meeting
Her: (she had one of those WTF looks like either she was thinking of a way to get out of it or just of total shock)
Me: Ok what’s with the look if you really don't want to go no prob I can just drop you off at my house.
Her: No it's not that I just hate talking in front of people I don't have to talk do I.
Me: LOL no

After that the conversation just flowed we talked about work and I told her about the club. We went in and she really got in to it she liked the criticizing part. I won table topics that night to witch was good because I think It raised my value in her eyes. We leave and start driving back to my house.

Her: That was cool I really wanted to give my input about the speakers.
Me: you can if you join. You can come next time but be easy on me.
Her: ok but not that easy LOL
Me: ok I am hungry let’s got get some food.
Her: Ummmm well I don’t want you ….
Me: (I cut her off befor she could finish I all ready know what she was going to say) what you think I want to date you? Come on you work with me I don’t need you giving me dirty looks after you miss up and we have to break up.
Her: LOL what ever you all ready told me I am too old for you. But yeah I don’t want a BF right now but I can use a friend.

We get to dinner and I am out of things to talk about.

Me: ok let’s hear the story of you.
Her: no I am way to missed up
Me: LOL Na just interesting ok I will tell you a story you want sad or wired?
Her: How wired?
Me: Not to wired (I give her a wicked smile)
Her: sad
Me: Ok (I tell her about some times in my life and try and put a funny spin on it)
Me: Ok your turn.
Her: (she tells me all about her past and why she thinks her life is so missed up I got a lot of insight in to what kind of person she was)

Me: ok let’s find you a guy you can date you need to have some fun
Her: Most guys are ass whole.
Me: o come on there are some good guys out there granted great ones like me are far and few between but we can find you one.
Her: you’re sweet.
Me: I am glade you like it.

We had a good time and I found out this girl is very picky, and not emotionally stable, and has a bad self image. I get the feeling if things went bad this chick would try and have me fired. We left and while we were walking to our cars

Me: you know your everything I didn’t think I wanted in a woman.
Her: whatever I am too old for you remember.
Me: I know you must be sad but don’t worry I will help you find a guy.
Her: LOL
Me: ok girly have a good night
Her: Hay what we talked about is just between us don’t tell any one.
Me: no way this is going on my blog so ever one can read it.
Her: LOL

On my way home I was wondering if when she said "I don’t want to date some on from work" was something she really meant or just something she was saying to slow things down because she was starting to like me to much. I know attraction is not a choice.

Input guys if I was going to try and move forward with this girl what should I do? I am not going to I like having a job but some advice to use in the future if I run in this kind of girl again would help.

[Finesse]

The thing I usually find that is missing when running game on girls from the office is kino, because we all subliminally turn that part off when dealing with girls from work for fear of sexual harrassment and losing our jobs.

Which by the way could still happen since there is a very long statute of limitations on when a person could file a charge against you.

Work game = dangerous proceed with caution.