BLUE BALLS

[TheDoGhoUse]

My first field report and problem ever fucking a girl before so bear with me on this one guys.

Its Friday and one of my friends is driving up to Tulsa to hang out with me for the day and head to a wedding we have to go to in Oklahoma City on Saturday. I am still doing Tax Consulting up here for one more week before I come back down to Dallas for the Mayweather fight and for good. Getting a little sidetracked - anyways he gets in town and we decide to Hooters for some food and drinks.

We pick this nice table right in the back corner with the hottest waitress in the joint - a little 22 year old russian - very slight russian accent, almost not noticeable (HB9). We immediately sit down and proceed to tell her how lucky of a waitress she is for having us sit down in her section. I'm using techniques I have picked up on here to direct the conversation such as push-pull, buying temperature, ect. Everytime I feel like she is about to leave I start negging her or giving her a hard time for being Russian. Tell my friend loudly she is probably an illegal-immigrant the next time she walks by. Everytime she comes right back to our table for conversation, we are making her day enjoyable, soon we have more waitresses stopping at our table and chatting, the best seat to have in Hooters I have discovered is right next to the register they enter in all the orders at. You can spit game at all of them.

Back to the story. We sit there and have about 3 pitchers of beer and catch up on everything, hour and a half. Her shift is up so she meets us outside for some food and more drinks. I have her pick up her food and another pitcher for us on her tab. They don't get discounts by the way. I basically talk her into driving us down to Oklahoma City and staying with us for the night and going to the wedding as our "date". We drive down and go to a bar in Oklahoma City and have a good time, I am pulling out all kinds of shit to try and get a kiss out of this chick, have had lots of good kino, her buying temperature is up. I am like I am going to fucking cheat and play this chick in pool and get a God Damn Kiss. I win the bet and get a lousy kiss on the cheek. My determination is eating away at my brain right now. We leave the bar and I almost get in a fight on the way out for my drunk friend grabbing one of the other guys girlfriends asses, I talk my way out of the situation by making them look like some morons in front of their dates/girlfriends before I get in the car and leave.

We reach the hotel that we are staying at and on the way my friend conviently reaches his last leg of conciousness and passes out in the car. I check in and when I enter the room and turn the temp down and make it nice and cold. I get her into bed and start by getting her to rub on my shoulders some for some good inital body contact. Its my turn I decide so I proceed to go to give this girl a massage and I am thinking I dont care if this girl has a boyfriend, is a lesbian, is a Fucking Nun, I am about to Fuck her. I go to rub her shoulders and she isnt having any of it, says she is uncomfortable so I try and slide my arm around her stomach which is a comfortable place and she is still uncomfortable and says its not a good decision. I immediately put on the cold - sit up and watch the TV for a little bit - im not being pushy or asking her any questions too personal but still only getting the same "uncomfortable" reply. I just dont give a fuck at this point and roll over and go to sleep. WTF? I figured she had a pretty good reason not too, hopefully it was because she had herpes. Any suggestions on how I should have broken down that wall, feel free.

[TheAwakened]

Is herpes a "wall" that you really want to break down?

[Røgue]

LOL

[Rhody]

Sounds like a testosterone-filled night. Smoking, drinking, fighting, and fucking.

Did you show any vulnerability during comfort?

[TheDoGhoUse]

Is herpes a "wall" that you really want to break down?

lmao, thats what i keep telling myself for comfort of failure, lol

and yes rhody, plenty of vulnerability was shown by being shot down, good news is shes been texting me a lot the last couple of days, there was no drinking and fucking but both would have been welcomed

[Finesse]

You said it was eating away at you. Could you have possibly let that show in any way?