Ok so lets say that I have been reading on the game but I don't really act on shit. I guess you could say Im complacent. I had this chick for a few months, but thats over with.
I need some help. This situation happened to me twice this weekend. I wasn;t really out to sarge, but I guess I shouldve followed up with something.
I see this one girl in the mall, and she is walking towards my way, we are going to walk past each other. Well, when I see her, I make eye contact with her, and I hold it. It was a bit different, but it was cool, b/c she held the eye contact also. Nice! Just as we passed, I say "What's up, real nonchalant like.. She smiles and says hi or something and that was that..
What should I have followed up with to make a pickup not seem too obvious? I had two bags with me.. Some flip flops and swimwear. I was thinking that maybe I shouldve done the girls opinion opener and got her opinion on my new gear???
The next day, I was at wal-mart... I was in the parking lot walking to the store when I see this fine lil mama walking out, about to pass me. Again, I held eye contact and when she passed, all I could say was hi!.. She smiles and says Hi kinda nervous like, and I didn't follow up with shit. I was at a loss for words. I think I have seen her before, acutally I think I have got her number before already. I think she works at wal mart and I have hit on her before, we exchanged numbers, and talked like only once or twice. Not sure what happened
On this one, Im thinking I couldve followed up with: Hey don't I know you? or.. Hey, haven't we met before? But then I was thinking.. Ok maybe she might remember who i was and think Im a chump... So what am I supposed to do if I want to get her digits again, but I already did that a while ago? Lost cause or should I renew interest with my PUA skills?