Kept eye contact, what should I have done next?

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Kept eye contact, what should I have done next?

Postby Suave » Sun Apr 15, 2007 10:50 am

Ok so lets say that I have been reading on the game but I don't really act on shit. I guess you could say Im complacent. I had this chick for a few months, but thats over with.

I need some help. This situation happened to me twice this weekend. I wasn;t really out to sarge, but I guess I shouldve followed up with something.

I see this one girl in the mall, and she is walking towards my way, we are going to walk past each other. Well, when I see her, I make eye contact with her, and I hold it. It was a bit different, but it was cool, b/c she held the eye contact also. Nice! Just as we passed, I say "What's up, real nonchalant like.. She smiles and says hi or something and that was that..

What should I have followed up with to make a pickup not seem too obvious? I had two bags with me.. Some flip flops and swimwear. I was thinking that maybe I shouldve done the girls opinion opener and got her opinion on my new gear???


The next day, I was at wal-mart... I was in the parking lot walking to the store when I see this fine lil mama walking out, about to pass me. Again, I held eye contact and when she passed, all I could say was hi!.. She smiles and says Hi kinda nervous like, and I didn't follow up with shit. I was at a loss for words. I think I have seen her before, acutally I think I have got her number before already. I think she works at wal mart and I have hit on her before, we exchanged numbers, and talked like only once or twice. Not sure what happened

On this one, Im thinking I couldve followed up with: Hey don't I know you? or.. Hey, haven't we met before? But then I was thinking.. Ok maybe she might remember who i was and think Im a chump... So what am I supposed to do if I want to get her digits again, but I already did that a while ago? Lost cause or should I renew interest with my PUA skills?
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Re: Kept eye contact, what should I have done next?

Postby Mojo » Mon Apr 30, 2007 4:48 pm

Suave wrote:I see this one girl in the mall, and she is walking towards my way, we are going to walk past each other. Well, when I see her, I make eye contact with her, and I hold it. It was a bit different, but it was cool, b/c she held the eye contact also. Nice! Just as we passed, I say "What's up, real nonchalant like.. She smiles and says hi or something and that was that..

What should I have followed up with to make a pickup not seem too obvious? I had two bags with me.. Some flip flops and swimwear. I was thinking that maybe I shouldve done the girls opinion opener and got her opinion on my new gear???


No need to go indirect; go direct.
If she was maintaining eye contact then she is interested and she knows you are interested since you are also maintaining eye contact.

I remember a professor of mine told my class that is you maintain eye contact for 3 seconds, she is interested in you. What I would of done is maintain eye contact and as we are about to walk pass each other, say, with a smile, "Hi. You know, I had this professor back at Baylor that told our class that if we maintain 3 seconds of eye contact with a person, they are attracted to us." Here you set the frame that she is attracted to you. You can continue or if you need to go somewhere, tell her you would like to talk but can't at this moment. Hand her you phone so she can put her number into your phone.
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