FR: logistics jam, had to eject, crying

[warriorpoet]

target: mel. age 19. 5'10 athletic. 8/10 in looks, sweet to the point of being naive, has a huge streak of sexcat in her personality. german background with fraouline fuck me eyes never switched off, with that one eyebrow that goes up as if to ask why we arent having sex yet, am i stoopid or something.

met her in a club 10 weeks ago, stopped her with some bullshit opener i cant remember. went "genuine guy" on her, totally direct, mega value AFC style, kino stopping at hand holding, zero tension, just disarmed the hell out of her and left her there (yes. i know. what a plan LOL)

anyway used 99% text game with no real RL intereaction, went CF, teased the life out of her, until i made a joke about her living on a farm (so useful, the farm analogy. brilliant trojan horse, you can use it to lead in on soooo much hilarious innuendo) asking if she owned a donkey, and where she bought the upside down saddle from. she transitioned sexually, saying that the donkeys name was "Max. Max Pleasure" and after i asked if he could lend me some of his viagra, she started embedding/EVing about sex/riding.

the rub is that she has a BF, and lives a LONG way away from my seduction location (im an inner city guy, hotel pad 100m from the main coffee strip in the city), she lives perhaps 80 minutes in the car away, so i cant baby step her back to mine

anyway, i drive 20 min from my place to meet her at a nightspot, she leaves her friends to find me, escapes her BF (at an adjacent nightspot) and meets me. first time we've seen each other in almost a couple months, emotional connection was huge, and i lacked the ability to kino and make the emotional/physical bridge i needed cos of the BF running around.

so there we are, in full light, looking at each other, BF and peer group someplace nearby, and she starts sucking her thumb, with that little eyebrow raise

i was fucked. i couldnt get her out of there, but i couldnt stay either, so I ejected.

so yah. moral of the story: WP pwns himself by planning poorly

i need a tour bus or something, with disco lights and a big bed. mobile seduction location. how can you go wrong?

brb, getting tissues

[quipster]

What is wrong with a near by hotel? I had to pull to La Quinta leaving Candle Room Wednesday night. good times.

-quip

[warriorpoet]

What is wrong with a near by hotel? I had to pull to La Quinta leaving Candle Room Wednesday night. good times.

-quip

eh? hotel? dude im flat out buying a girl a drink before i fuck her

anyway getting a hotel is a bigger hoop than getting her to my place. a hotel = random sex. my home = accepting her into my world, comfort building etc

[quipster]

so there we are, in full light, looking at each other, BF and peer group someplace nearby, and she starts sucking her thumb, with that little eyebrow raise

This exactly why hotel = random sex = good

Hotel is pretty simple to pull off. Just mention that you had one too many and its safer this way. The reason doesnt have to be 100% logical. You just need a reason. Keep up the good work wp, we want a LR out of this

-quip

[warriorpoet]

so there we are, in full light, looking at each other, BF and peer group someplace nearby, and she starts sucking her thumb, with that little eyebrow raise

This exactly why hotel = random sex = good

Hotel is pretty simple to pull off. Just mention that you had one too many and its safer this way. The reason doesnt have to be 100% logical. You just need a reason. Keep up the good work wp, we want a LR out of this

-quip

i mustnt have explained this properly - the drama isnt just logistics, its the size of the hoop im getting her to jump through. getting her into a cab to go to my place is easier than finding a hotel in the middle of the burbs, and a much smaller hoop.

ive used the genuine good guy angle. im riding a wave of comfort, and the thing thats going to get us to sex is a demonstration of real value (that i have lots of). to be congruent, i need to invite her to my home. nice guys dont fuck chicks in random hotels- making that jump too fast would blow me out hard

anyway on the brightside i told her that my housemate was interstate, that i wanted her company, that im throwing a party, and that she is going to sleep in his room cos i want her company, and this living on a farm shit isnt cutting it. shes up for it its gonna be fun lol