Opening the road for the other guys

[jast]

Went back out to the bar last night. I was sitting with my same friend from last time drink and bsing. When she notices a HB9 sitting alone at a table. All her friend had gone up to the dance floor a few mins ago.

Friend: Go talk to her.
Me: (I look at the girl and she is hot my brain locks up) Na she has a boy friend or something.
Friend: You are such a pussy!!!
Me: (Yeah I am being a pussy F that) Ok fine

I get up and walk over and walk past her then turn around and make eye contacted.

Me: (I gesture with my head for her to come out to the dance floor with me and hold out my hand)
Her: (she shacks her head no)
Me: I bend down so we are eye level and I can talk to her (she is sitting down) what you don't want to have fun? Come on your friends aren't even that good I bet we can show them up.
Her: (smiling) No thanks I am fine.
Me: Ok but if you change your mind I am over here were the fun is (I point to our table).

I go sit back down no less then 3 min later a new guy is hiting on her then another and another after about 10 min 5 guys had gone over there and opened her. It was kind of funny most of the guys opening her looked way better then me. Why did they waited till I got shoot down to go open her?

[BluesCluesPUA]

Could have been anything. Maybe they didn't see you talk to her or just hadn't spotted her yet, or maybe they were trying to look better by comparison. Once you softened her up to being approached, they saw an opportunity and decided to jump in.