LR 3/6/07

[switch]

Well i wanted to post this a lot sooner but work gets in the way sometimes.

Tuesday, March 6

I was in the mood, you know when you cant get sarging off your mind.
I headed to Primos in Uptown around 5:00 to sarge alone and meet up with a friend for a couple drinks around 7:00. I had just read about the newbie mission, and decide i would try to open some sets. Well in short, this got my confidence going and i was able to open sets all night.

After 5 diffrent bars and a couple #closes, i headed to a local bar near my house to finish off the night. So i walk in, fluff the waitstaff on the way to the bar, sit and order a drink. As i was entering, i was in the middle of a text frenzy with my usual wing who was out of town doing the same thing. So i wasnt scanning on the way in. When my drink shows up, im reading text and cracking up not paying much attention to my surroundings, and out of nowhere this HB opens me...

HB: Mind if i have a seat?
Switch: Go ahead, its not mine (smirking)
HB: Are you here alone?
Switch: Yeah, i just stopped by to catch the end of the game, then i need to get home. (somewhat of a time constraint since there was only a couple minutes left)
few minutes of fluff, what do you do, more fluff
Switch: lets grab a table, im tired of this guy bumping his chair into my back..
so we move to a table(isolation)
she mentions that she just came back from L.A. after being there for a few years
Switch: Oh really, I just came back from there, blah, mention sposor, blah, wakeboarding, blah(basically i used her dhv to tell her my story full of DHV's) and throw in a few ioi's

By now its midnight and my time constraint was long gone, so i say "It was great to meet you, thanks for the conversation, but i really need to be getting home". To this she responds " Well at least let me buy you a shot before you go?!" okay sure ill take a free shot(actually all of my drinks were free at that bar because the bartender was into me) so we take a shot and i headed to the restroom, by the time i got back she had ordered me another drink.Went on with some more fluff talk, about dogs, school and such (comfort building). Now its 2:00 am and the bar is closing and i had mentioned her going on the boat with me the up coming weekend. I try to leave again by saing "well i guess im outta here..." she immediately responds with " arent you going to invite me to your place?"
Switch: I didnt plan on it but if you're offering...
HB: well i need to run home to "clean up" (shave) and ill give you a call..
HB: whats your number?
So i gave her the number expecting to get a call in the next few weeks. Thirty minutes later i get a call, "Okay, where do i go?"
So i give her directions, and ten minuets later she's knocking on the door.
Comes in, play with the dog, little sexual innuendo's, and I head to the bed. She strips down, Hop's in with me and its on...

Now, within 7 days I have turned her into a FB, but thats another story...

Sorry for any grammatical errors, but im in a hurry, the next HB is waiting!

-Switch

[Welsh_Dragon]

Quite a few good points in this report.

- Get into the mood with initial sets, #closes, etc... I find my energy and in particular calibration really benefits from this.

- Entering a bar on your own (particularly late at night) is DHV, particularly if you have balls, good BL and can fluff the staff/alphas. Perception of comfort in this foreign environment is very powerful to observers (read: all girls).

- Texting - this is big and I use it a lot. When I hit a slow moment in the evening I text 2 or 3 people (usually girls) and instigate something. This can serve many purposes. I often walk across the room in full blown text mode (takes practice). For the sake of this example it makes you completely engaged in your world (not needy) and the bonus is you are also more easy to associate with because girls love to text too.

- Girls also go out to get laid (although in my experience it's usually not HB9+ (you didn't quantify level)). Being opened by one of these sure things is like being dealt a royal flush. Sure - you can win with a pair of 3s - but it's nice not to have to bluff.

- YOU ARE THE PRIZE. You know the score but maintain frame throughout. With experience you can tell, with a high degree of certanty, which ones are out for the fuck within 30 seconds.

- If you pull the right way it almost always ends in FB - see Texting above