Dallas PUA

So I helped host a club party last night (instant DHV), and I must say it's been probably the best party I've been a part of this year so far.

Textbook stuff. Psyched myself into a party mindset (high energy, playful, and confident), peacocked slightly with a pair of aviators, threw a pre-party.

DHVing comes natural if you put yourself in the position of hosting, whether or not you are officially the host. Keys to making your presence felt:

- Introduce new people to friends(make sure to throw in something good to say about each person, because quality people have quality friends)

- Smile

- Open

- Enjoy yourself, and others will enjoy your company

Not exactly quantum physics, so anybody should be at least doing these things anywhere they sarge.

Anyways, so I'm dancing, introducing newbs to HBs like I'm the candyman, and soaking in the good vibes(the event was in celebration for one of my boys getting back). And girls were opening me up. Don't remember a time when I didn't have girls ready to dance or a dude looking to be introduced to said girls, haha.

My favorite part of the night....

I had a girl begging to make out with me.

Dialogue:

Me: hey sweetheart havn't seen you in ages! *hug*
G- ya i know rite?... I heard you were single...
Me: eh it's iffy
G- what's that supposed to mean?
Me: it means exactly what I said. iffy. *wobbly hand*
G- I don't have time for games, I'm too old for that...
Me: I don't play games *blank stare and silence*
G- Kiss me
Me: *as I move in closer* I don't think so. *more silence*
G- Wha? Why not?
Me: You're drunk.
G- I'm not drunk... I always had it for you, but you've always been taken, am I right?
Me: *blank stare and silence as I am literally an 2 inches from her lips*
G- C'mon why won't you make out with me?!
Me: *smile*

Enter HBpetite, who literally(and I mean literally) pushes this girl aside and takes me away.

I couldn't stop laughing... and all day I definitely have been calling out HBpetite for her abrupt interruption(it was just too damn adorable to watch her get that jealous).

This girl just got puss-teased and got a guy "stolen" from right under her.

Now guys remember this scenario when you were an AFC? You meet a tease, ya get frustrated, and the girl ends up with another guy? It's time to turn the tables.

more later... I have company.

Respect.

I like the way you think, BrotherBeau... turning the tables. There's nothing like watching the escalation of social proof and the resulting frenzy among the HB's clamoring for you. Admittedly, I've only been able to pull off that feat twice in my life, but man, it's worth it when it happens.

H3v3n, it's a solid state of mind to be in.

All you have to do is realize that you are the prize.

Every set you should be telling yourself "I will be the best thing that ever graces these peoples' lives. If they don't accept me, they are missing out on something big."

And truly believe it. The confidence will come. The girls will flock. The guys will want to know how you do it.

And then from there you'll be unstoppable.

Good luck man, I know you as well as others will be able to do this easily. And you're right, it is worth it... HB petite still couldn't fathom the fact that she had to compete for my attention. And now she can't stand being away from me.