My primary opener is "I need to get a gift for my thirteen year old niece, what do you reccomend." My second is "Do girls snoop around? I have a friend who started dating a girl who took pictures of him with her cell phone camera and sent them to her friends so they could keep an eye on him." My third is .... I know I know..."Who lies more." It's so damn good, opens everything.
On Friday I opened at the gym on UTA campus. Here I used situational openers of "how do you like the machine" or "what type of workout do you like". I opened four sets with this. The first was a UG. Some were pretty decent, one set was with a 9, and she responded very friendly to the opener. One girl I got a cold response from, was only a five too, shot my ego down. I then went to Mavericks in Arlington and opened with my second opener, and started a conversation with a 4 and a 7. But one of their male friends arrived and I was given the cold shoulder soon.
Saturday I went with a couple of friends to Blu Bar in Arlington and to the Library in Ft.Worth. I opened one set in there of mostly fat girls with my second opener. They opened and basically responded with "yeah, that sounds really crazy." That was the basic response I got from every set I opened with that same line. Although it is freaking hard to open in the Library because it is so loud. Lost my voice
. My friends and I then descended upon a small bachelorette party. All the girls were engaged or currently married except for two. But my two friends who each had 9 beers each were getting responses from two girls that weren't. Felt a little bit left out, but then I realized that I need to up my storytelling skills to make me the center of attention.
Today, I went to walmart...wierd, but lots of cuties to practice on there. And ran my first opener. They all gave me the response of a few ideas, or what's your budget, etc. I thanked them and then exited. I think to escalate a little bit I need to go into cocky funny with one of their answers. I seem to do C&F fairly well with girls I meet in classes. In fact for me conversation seems to stall until I go into C&F mode and start calling girls names in a playful way(dork, nerd, etc.) I tease friends and family a lot, so it comes fairly natural to me once I get in the groove.
The most important point thing I need to remember when sarging is the three second rule. For me I am so arrested with fear of social situations that in some cases three seconds has turned into three hours before I approach. I hope to keep up with the bootcamp continually. Another idea I have is to go to another college campus and try and experiment with game there. I went to SMU a couple of weeks ago and then try and be more bold with approaches, like joke approaches and other more direct openers.