Dallas PUA

I had an amazing day.

Read a post on fs by ijjjjji i think about momentum, was totally feeling the momentum at work on this sarge.

Started off at the gym, made some smalltalk with the girl behind the desk, that got me in the social mood, hit the weights and got the testosterone flowing, noticed some chick eyeing me while on the treadmill, but I let it go ( I have a fear of getting blown out in places I frequent alot ), but just noticing a chick checking me out made me feel pretty money.

Went out to eat with a chick friend in Addison, me and this girl are totally plutonic, but again talking and making her laugh got me in a good mood, as we are leaving the restaurant I notice a table with 2 girls, one of them is making eye contact with me ( hbIndian ), my friend is getting her coat, I stroll over to their table and make some comment about the band that was playing then decide to go direct ( I NEVER go direct, but I was in just such a good mood I thought I would roll the dice ) "hey, I gotta go, my friend is leaving, this is random but hey youre cute, give me your number lets go out some time". She proceeds to give me her #. Sweet. Havent called yet, so not sure it will pan out.

I think what allowed me to pull the # in this situation was having social proof by being with a chick, and I was dressed up. GQ style.

So now my vibe is OFF THE CHARTS. Me and my friend and some of her friends roll to a bar.

I'm laughing, smiling, having a good time with my friend, overhear girl ( HBbrunette ) at the table next to us talking about football, briefly turn around and talk shit about her team haha, then turn around and go back to hanging with my friends.

Later in the night, I make eye contact with HBBrunette, she waves me to come over, I say no and wave her to come over, this goes back and forth and then I say lets meet in the middle, so we do.

HBBrunette: hey, youre kind of cute
omgdallas: thanks
omgdallas: youre not really my type though, I usually only date asians
omgdallas: ( i notice she has a ring on her finger lol )
omgdallas: but I see your married, thats a plus
HBBrunette: haha

I get distracted by one of my friends, so I leave her for like 10 minutes, then come back, make some small talk, she actually is married lol, some arm kino, bar is closing, she is leaning into me, she starts kissing me in the middle of the bar haha, everyone is staring at us, but it was SO great.

Make out for a little, then I go back to my friends and just leave with them, didnt get her number or even really say goodbye, maybe our paths will cross again.

Sounds like a married chick who was out for some fun. A married chick who was kissing you in a club. Think about it. That's nearly a gimme. Or at least that's been my experience. She wanted some "strange". You shoulda stayed with it and f-closed her.

Yeah, sounds like that could have been a "done deal"!

But you know... in the moment, you never know.

I would have been thinking... "Let's go back to my place." LOL

Good report!

perhaps,

I guess I have a preconveived notion that married chicks might like to party and make out with another guy but would draw the line at sleeping with them

obviously that notion is false though, I need to get it in my head i guess

i sometimes end up the same way.... i now make sure i do at least a number close... i know what i am about to say.... so it comes out easier for me....

but good stuff...

omgdallas wrote:perhaps,

I guess I have a preconveived notion that married chicks might like to party and make out with another guy but would draw the line at sleeping with them

obviously that notion is false though, I need to get it in my head i guess

From personal experience I can tell you that if a married person is out without their spouse/significant other then the relationship lacks something and you have a shot with them. If they were completely fulfilled they wouldn't be out partying with the girls. My advice is hit on married chicks - the older the higher the likelihood of success. If she's 80 you're sure to f-close!

c'mon now Self that is a bit of a generalization. Married chicks out for dinner or a few drinks with friend(s) often are not interested at all in picking up guys.

Some are and obviously the venue, time and way they act all play into the truth. You have to be good at making reads.

Welsh_Dragon wrote:c'mon now Self that is a bit of a generalization. Married chicks out for dinner or a few drinks with friend(s) often are not interested at all in picking up guys.

Some are and obviously the venue, time and way they act all play into the truth. You have to be good at making reads.

Agreed. I often make broad generalizations like that. Nonetheless, I definitely believe marital status should NOT discourage a pick-up attempt.

Married girls will typically let you know their intentions early if you know what to look for.