FR: Pair up boys! Sherlocks 10-21
Posted: Sat Oct 22, 2011 9:54 amMy new friend Matt B (goes to TWU) paired up and bounced between bars
No major hits last night, all night
I have thoughts as to why the night was slow for us. Matt was new so I was leading us both. kinda meant my success was our success. Last night, our lack was my lack
I wore a stone necklace turquoise color which made me look younger. Younger is not better for me- oops. Second, I chose to peacock by have girls at work write like sexy, hotness, take me home on name tags and I threw one on (preselection cuz its girls handwriting). I picked cutie pie. Again the young thing taking me out.....
Lastly, no hat. Makes a huge difference it does. My look was just not pressing their primal buttons last night and it was dry dry dry
So I got impatient and started opening them. At one time I opened 6 sets in a row like a walk by! I didn't get to a hook point. I thought the sets would be plenty and we could bounce to another bar- famous last words
Entire night- maybe- MAYBE seven sets clearly needed to be opened and those were the ones I non-commitally wramed up on.
So we tried everything too- breaking into guy sets and pivoting, posting up outside on the sidewalk, etc.. WITH AS MANY PEOPLE IN THE BAR THEY ALL MANAGED TO BE IN THEIR OWN ZONE AND NATURAL OPENERS LIKE EYE CONTACT WERE SCARCE.
Me being warmed up on the body language subtleties of the day game, I didn't want to just bust in and grab the set! I had to thought or else nothing was going down
We even posted up and threw out our lines (chilled out) in heavy traffic walkways and waited for a good natural IOI like hair touching, looking away- NOTHIN. dry dry dry
We had a great time! I was just confounded at the end of the night that I had no approach anxiety and nothing to do with it. Time to learn new skills for bars
BlackFINN was the best though
Ima post this in field reports
No major hits last night, all night
I have thoughts as to why the night was slow for us. Matt was new so I was leading us both. kinda meant my success was our success. Last night, our lack was my lack
I wore a stone necklace turquoise color which made me look younger. Younger is not better for me- oops. Second, I chose to peacock by have girls at work write like sexy, hotness, take me home on name tags and I threw one on (preselection cuz its girls handwriting). I picked cutie pie. Again the young thing taking me out.....
Lastly, no hat. Makes a huge difference it does. My look was just not pressing their primal buttons last night and it was dry dry dry
So I got impatient and started opening them. At one time I opened 6 sets in a row like a walk by! I didn't get to a hook point. I thought the sets would be plenty and we could bounce to another bar- famous last words
Entire night- maybe- MAYBE seven sets clearly needed to be opened and those were the ones I non-commitally wramed up on.
So we tried everything too- breaking into guy sets and pivoting, posting up outside on the sidewalk, etc.. WITH AS MANY PEOPLE IN THE BAR THEY ALL MANAGED TO BE IN THEIR OWN ZONE AND NATURAL OPENERS LIKE EYE CONTACT WERE SCARCE.
Me being warmed up on the body language subtleties of the day game, I didn't want to just bust in and grab the set! I had to thought or else nothing was going down
We even posted up and threw out our lines (chilled out) in heavy traffic walkways and waited for a good natural IOI like hair touching, looking away- NOTHIN. dry dry dry
We had a great time! I was just confounded at the end of the night that I had no approach anxiety and nothing to do with it. Time to learn new skills for bars
BlackFINN was the best though
Ima post this in field reports