From Facebook to HB's Apartment

[Captain Ahab]

Congratulations everyone, you are now witnessing the popping of my PUA field reporting cherry.

It was Sunday March 20, 2011. I was at a Starbucks hoping for some HB's to show up. While I was passing the time, I worked on my laptop and had Facebook up and running. I noticed that this one Asian HB was online. I had met her at a party before, but had never really spoken to her. I decided that this would be a great opportunity to try out a Facebook opener I had been crafting. I initiated the Facebook chat which follows:

Me: "So is the rumor I heard about you this weekend true?"
HB: "What are you talking about?"
HB: "What rumor did you hear?"
Me: "I heard something about you being at a party this weekend?"
HB: "haha, seriously, what did you hear?"
Me: "Nothing, I was just bored and figured I would have a bit of fun with you "
HB: "LOL you're such a nice person"

At this point I engaged in typical small chat with her and then I decided to try to make something happen. My goal, was to invite myself over to her apartment for a drink. I accomplished this goal, and below is an account of how I navigated the conversation to that point.

Me: "Hey, HB, can you help me with something?"
HB: "Sure, what do you need?"
Me: "Well, like yourself, I am also an alcoholic. I need some peer support, will you support me?"
Pause............
Me: "Will you support me by opening your apartment to me and letting me drink your booze? "
HB: "Sure come over, but I'm tired from partying last night so I won't drink with you"
Me: "Ok, what's your number, I'm sure I'll get lost?"
HB: number close
Me: "I'll be there in about 45 min"
Me: "Make sure to have a warm bath drawn for me "

I did go to her apartment, but when I got there I discovered that she had two more girlfriends coming over for dinner (a dinner that I was invited to stay for). I hung out with the first HB until her friends showed up. I made sure to get the HB hostess to get up and bring me my drinks etc. But I had a hard time figuring out how to phase shift into the sexual. I felt like I had opportunity early on, because she was in a bathrobe when I first showed up, and she then changed into slutty ass shorts, however I didn't get any IOI's. I stuck around for a little while once the friends showed up, but my game wasn't good enough to keep them all entertained so I bailed saying: "well it's been fun girls, but I didn't realize that I was being invited to eat in the presence of a ticking estrogen bomb, and I didn't realize that dinner was going to take this long, take care."

Any advice would be appreciated.

[CMONEY23]

I'm not a PUA or anything so what I have to say you can take it or leave it.

You were in a very tough spot trying to entertain the 2 friends while trying to isolate the HB. This is some advanced PUA-ing. The only thing I can think of is try to isolate the HB like you would in any set. Taking her to the bedroom may be a little intense but you could have stolen her away from her friends and taken her out on the balcony/patio.

Either way, no IOI's is not good. I wonder if she invited her friends over for dinner before or after she invited you over?

What is your previous rellationship with this girl? How long have you known her? When and how did you first meet? That might have affected what happened on this night.

Just my opinion.

I really respect the FB conversation to get yourself the invite over, props.