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I hope I don't end up with a reverse Mohawk.

PostPosted: Wed Jan 10, 2007 10:10 pm
by Elsewhere
It was time for a haircut so I went to my hair stylist. This is the second time I've used her cut my hair. The first time was before I read The Game.

She's an HB9 in her photo but more of an HB8 in person. Odd how some women look far betting in a photo that in person.

The first time I saw her for a hair cut I could tell there was a bit of chemistry, but I made all of the classic AFC mistakes and nothing escalated.

This time around I negged her several times and she responded with more flirting. I also did the silent IOI test two times and both times she continued the conversation after about 3 seconds.

During all of this we started talking about our teen years. I took this opportunity to give her several Demonstrations of Value and Social Proof with old storied about how I snuck out and "borrowed" my dads truck when I was a teen along with a few others about doing mischievous teen things. Turns out she was a naughty girl as a teen and related some of her own stories. :wink:

Toward the end I negged her again by telling her that she cut my hair too short. :shock: Contrary to AFC thought, she responded positively to this and started flirting more in an attempt to win me over. She also pulled out her customer log book and told me that she normally doesn't enter customer information until the third or fourth visit. She put my name, number and notes on how to better cut my hair to prevent any future "mistakes".

After she wrote my number I said: "Ok, now you don't have an excuse not to call me."

She got a kick out of that and the flirting continued.

I paid started to leave; after I exited the door and walked a few steps down the hallway she followed me out and said: "If I need anything, you can call me!". She also offered to trim my beard, but I declined as I had just trimmed it the other day... thinking back my refusing was a mistake. This was probably her way of trying to get in a bit of kino.

I then reminded her of something she told me the first time I went by for a haircut (a month ago). She had said: "Sorry, but I don't cut hair for your kind... beards are not allowed here!". At the time this happened (before reading The Game) I did have enough sense to crack a joke back at her and flirted a bit.

We got a good laugh out of my reminding her of this.

In the end we had a very good exchange with good chemistry. I only have one question: Considering how she said "If I need anything, you can call me!", should I call her or should I just wait hoping she will call me?

PostPosted: Thu Jan 11, 2007 9:57 am
by boyracer
I'd wait a couple of days, maybe until after the weekend, and give her a call. Tell her you're going to go (something interesting) and ask her if she wants to tag along. This way, there's no "pressure" of asking her on a "date", because you're going to do it anyway..... you have a life and a lot of things going on.

Great work!

Keep us updated.

PostPosted: Thu Jan 11, 2007 9:03 pm
by Elsewhere
While we were talking I brought up how you can't trust what the girls at clothing stores tell you... no matter what you pick they will always tell you it looks good on you.

I need to go buy a few pieces of clothing... how about I ask her if she wants to tag along so I know "the store girl" isn't lying to me.

PostPosted: Fri Jan 12, 2007 4:41 am
by Vector
Elsewhere wrote:I need to go buy a few pieces of clothing... how about I ask her if she wants to tag along so I know "the store girl" isn't lying to me.


I've used that as a day2, it worked fine. Before I invited her I asked, "how good is your fashion sense, on a scale from 1 to 10?"

PostPosted: Wed Jan 17, 2007 6:50 pm
by Elsewhere
This one is a no-go. :roll:

I called and all of the sudden she has a boy friend. Being that I'm new to all of this I didn't have the presence of mind to give her the "I didn't ask if you have a boy friend" response.

She added that she "will keep [me] in mind". Translation: I don't have a snowball's chance in hell.

Moving on to the next....