This is starting to piss me off because it's not a sticking point in any of the initial attraction or comfort. My new sticking point is LMR and it makes me so mad because I have to put in such effort to pull off the entire seduction and then get shot down with LMR.
I went to xbar last night after work just to have a couple drinks. I ran into an HB7.5 sitting outside and I talked to her for a while. Blah blah blah... She ends up leaving with her friend. I went inside to close my tab and on my way out I get an AI from this HB8. I play it off and walk on out and smoke a cigarette and come back in and open the set. Blah blah blah, I work my magic and me and her friend and this guy who is her neighbor go back to her place. Friend and neighbor are sitting on the couch talking and this guy is a total AFC. I'm in the kitchen with her dancing to 80's rock. Friend and neighbor leave because we are getting a little frisky. We start makin out on the couch, clothes are starting to come off, everything's great. She tells me that we're not having sex. I say ok and continue what I was doing. She pushes my hand away, freeze out. She pulls me back. Then she tells me that she's "on her lady time." motherfucker... I don't give a fuck cause I want to get laid, but I just didn't know what to do. So now I have a hickie the size of a fuckin golf ball on my neck that is as dark as a grape and nothing to show for it...
Sorry about the format of this. I drank a lot with her at her place and my head is fuckin killin me.