FR: night out

[f1reguy]

New to the PUA game, but I want to get good. I went out last night, aproached lots of girls, got rejected most of the time. I danced with lots of different girls, but I was unable to pull any away. When I was able to to get them off the dance floor, they would usually walk away after a minute or two to get back with friends. Very frustrating. My problem I think is like many other noobs. I am able to open and hold their attention for approximately 1 minute, then it vanishes.

Also I think I may have been coming off as sleezy at some points, as one girl in the group kept pushing me away off of her friends (the friends did not do the pushing). But then later, another friend in the group came by, looked at me, pinched my cheek and said "you are so cute!" I took that as an insult (as if I were an AFC), but laughed it off. No numbers, and went home.

I am glad that I did end up socailizing with the girls there, but it was far from successful.

[Scoundrel]

Okay, It sounds like you are doing well. You just need to keep track of what's working and what's not. If you can open her and she's interested for a min, but then gets boared, you need to come up with something else for that second min. Try asking about the bar scene, the other cool bars in that area and maybe get into a little roll play making her your tour guide. Then KINO!!!

[Stryke]

If you get a chance pm, you should sarge with ness and I we are getting back in the game had a lot of fun last night opened up a few sets one with bisexual women

[Tribulus1000]

New to the PUA game, but I want to get good. I went out last night, aproached lots of girls, got rejected most of the time. I danced with lots of different girls, but I was unable to pull any away. When I was able to to get them off the dance floor, they would usually walk away after a minute or two to get back with friends. Very frustrating. My problem I think is like many other noobs. I am able to open and hold their attention for approximately 1 minute, then it vanishes.

Also I think I may have been coming off as sleezy at some points, as one girl in the group kept pushing me away off of her friends (the friends did not do the pushing). But then later, another friend in the group came by, looked at me, pinched my cheek and said "you are so cute!" I took that as an insult (as if I were an AFC), but laughed it off. No numbers, and went home.

I am glad that I did end up socailizing with the girls there, but it was far from successful.

Well buddy, you gotta start out from the beginning. Everybody, even the naturals and cool guys had to do that because you don't come out of the womb knowing what to do.

The thing to do is use your imagination to come up with any fixes to the problems you've told us about.

For instance.... you say:

I danced with lots of different girls, but I was unable to pull any away. When I was able to to get them off the dance floor, they would usually walk away after a minute or two to get back with friends.

So what could you do here?

Come up with an excuse to pull them off the dance floor and get them isolated, right?

An excuse might be an isolation statement like "I have something cool to show you, come with me."
(Make sure you don't ask questions)
Come up with a cool game or thing you can do with her once you have her by herself.

Another isolation statement might be "I need a drink, come with me." And you can buy her a drink if you so choose or just get some water.

A good one I often use is "Let me introduce you to some friends" and then say you can't find them.

Any excuse you can think of to get her off the dance floor. The dance floor is sexually charge but most of the convo is done away from that.
You need a real connection between two people.

Ok, so now that you have a few isolation statements or excuses to leave the dance floor, run through that scenario a few times in your mind as if you're still there with the girls.

What happens next? Do they sit down with you near the bar?

Imagine what you would do next and after that.

Come up with a detailed Master Plan of Action so you can succeed.

I believe this is how most good PUA's come up with material. They have a contingency plan that is so good that it works every time.

If you do this for each phase that you have, you'll soon be proficient enough to start pulling girls home.

[f1reguy]

Good advice fellas! I will try that to think of other things and let you know next time how it goes.

[Real]

stop dancing. mr.newbie: it is a trap, unless u've got sick dancefloor game

[north21]

i don't know if it is a trap. It seems like a great way to isolate a girl who is already attracted to you and gets her comfortable with kino like crazy.

From what you've told me, it sound like she would have wanted 5 more minutes or so of conversation out of you before dancing would help you out.

I'm still a noob, but reading a lot. Will be sarging this weekend for first time in Dallas

[Real]

dance floor game is a separate game. some instructors are speer (phase shift method) and asian playboy from abc's of attraction. those are the ones i know.

mystery and co would advice u to not look at the dance floor. go through videos and youtube, u'll find him telling that.

badboy suggests waiting for the girl to get out of the dance floor before sarging her.

it pissed me off when i saw some puas (probably newbies) sarging girls on the dance floor. they were talking to them. it is not the place to practice that kind of game.