Got dismantled on a day2

[Kit]

I got dissected like a fucking frog. I got neutralized, dismantled and pissed on.

I went out with a very witty Asian chick on a day2. She texted me and invited me to a movie tonight. She had a screening ticket for two people.

When we were seated waiting for the movie so start, I made some comment about her date cancelling at the last minute. Guess her reply? “This is not a date.” – She freaking shut me down and made a jackass out of me. Score HBAsianChick 1 and AFC = 0

Later when the movie starts she tells me I can’t talk. This movie is mostly black people so I try to be funny and say, "you mean I can’t talk to you. I know I am allowed to talk to the screen." I think she thought it was funny but then she responds with "no you can’t, the rules are on the ticket." I said, “They are?” Then she looks at me like I’m an idiot and says, “You fell for that?” Score HBAsianChick = 2 and AFC = 0

After the movie I say, “let’s go get a drink.” She says, “mmm No.” She just leaves it at that, no explanation, no nothing. HBAsianChick = 3 and AFC = 0

It’s like she freaking read the same books and played it better than me. I tried the PUA stuff with her but she would slap it down like she was Shaq on roids.

This was my first date with an Asian chick. Is this typical? Do women just bleed this stuff naturally? I mean I would pay to have her skills.

When I walked her to her car and we were talking, she said I was looking at her weird. It was because she had me totally dismantled and dumbfounded and I had no idea why she had even asked me to come. I finally caved in from the beating and responded, “You’re weird. Good night.” And then I turned around and walked to my car.

I got a call from her about 45 minutes later. This was about 10:15 and she said she was on her way to a client’s house. Hmmm… so she used me for a date at a free movie and then she’s going to someone else’s house to get laid. Why call me at all? If you’re going to call me, why mention you are headed to a client's?

HBAsianChick = 1,000,000 and AFC = 0

At this point I am pissed and the call drops. I know I suck for letting my emotions control me. I’m working to overcome that. She tries to call back but I hit the ignore button and then send her a text telling her to call me sometime when she’s not going to use me for company at a free movie only to treat me like a chump afterward.

Feel free to rip me to shreds with all the freaking ways I fucked this up. I have it coming. By the way, if you happen to be the guy she was going to fuck, just fess up man. There won’t be any hard feelings. I’ll just shake your hand and ask you to explain it to me.

[El Fenix]

No movies for day2's EVER.

[Bull Run]

We've all been there:

http://dallaspua.com/forum/viewtopic.ph ... sc&start=0

Hold on to your frame at all times. This was just a case of you letting her tear down your frame.

[Twitchy]

Ha! I may actually know her.....

what line of business is she in? Kit, are you in your lower 40s?

[Lion]

No movies for day2's EVER.

Good. My rule is no movies, dinner, or afc stuff until I have slept with her. And then after I have, my rule is no more contact with her. Not really. My rule is I make her invest in me physically before I invest in her any other way.

[Lion]

Kit, if I were you I would have just busted her balls all night. So she's witty? Big deal. Be witty back. Act like she is your bratty little sister.

A client at 10:15? Did you take a hooker on a date???

[Kit]

A client at 10:15? Did you take a hooker on a date???

I'm still trying to figure it out...

Ha! I may actually know her.....

what line of business is she in? Kit, are you in your lower 40s?

I'm 40 but I'm going to start lying about that. Why do I seem like an old fart to you? You tell me what business she is in or her first name You can message me if you like.

I know someone on here knows her.

Hold on to your frame at all times. This was just a case of you letting her tear down your frame.

That's because my frame sucks. It's a glass house and she threw rocks at it. I'm a natural AFC that knows how to say, "thank you, I'm sorry, please, may I..." Shit like that...

I'm not good at making a girl feel like a doosh.

[DateDemon]

first of all she sounds kind of like a bitch. 2nd of all I have nothing against the idea of dating an asian girl, I have done it before. But from my experience some of them can be definitely hard to put up with. I also find a lot of Asian girls to be pretty immature.

Also she invited you to the screening right? Don't pay for crap. Generally I say first date you pay for. You are inviting her out so its kind of like a your treat thing. (but thats just my belief). If the girl asks you out to do something though it is her responsibility if not to pay for you then to at least pay for herself.

Also the comment at the beginning "This isn't a date" haha what guy can't relate to a comment like that?? lol I am sure it has happened to us all or at least to a friend.

I don't know how you responded but you should have been like awesome!! Thats my general rule whenever a girl drops a line that she would expect an AFC to be broken up over I act like she just relieved a lot of pressure.
Her: I have a boyfriend
YOU: Awesome! I bet he is cool. ....(then continue)
Her: This is not a date
You: Awesome! I was worried you were going to rape me. (or whatever)


Also Kit just keep in mind the way she responded to you in the story made her out to be basically a total bitch. And a girl that is a bitch on a day 2 isn't worth your time anyway. You don't want to be stuck with her for even longer periods lol.

Most Asian girls I know that are bitches like this really just are wanting someone to take charge and tell them they are the man. Then their bitchiness will turn into immaturity and you will have to be her "dad" the rest of the relationship. Fuck being someone's dad you want a girl that is more mature than that.

[Twitchy]

I'm 40 but I'm going to start lying about that. Why do I seem like an old fart to you? You tell me what business she is in or her first name You can message me if you like.

One of my best friends, a HOT asian girl, just started seeing a guy who is in his lower 40's. She went out to the movies with him last night.

She called me this morning and said she had a great time so it doesn't sound like your date.

And no, you aren't an old fart. I am ony a couple of years behind you....

[Kit]

Oh I forgot to mention that she never calls me by name. She usually makes some midget reference because I tried to talk about midgets to her and someone earlier in the night had already done it.

I am telling you this girl has read our stuff.