Bi-sexual girl

[Slider]

I k-closed this bi girl about 3 weeks ago. Thus far, I have been really good about being the prize she has to earn. Last saturday, I was supposed to go watch her at a bikini contest with Slacker, and we flaked her off. She keeps sending me messages on why I didn't show up, when are we going to meet up again.

Anyway, we have been playing this game for 3 weeks now, and I keep getting text messages from her asking if I can hang out. I am cool with that, as long as it is on my terms. I have been up front and told her that every time she changes stuff up on me, that I am not going to follow through with meeting her.

What is the best way to handle this? Am I being too much of a dick? Her last text for tonight was "So I guess you don't want to see me." I know she wants to F-close with me, but I am getting sick of the change up on the plans. Should I just ditch her for good? I want to f-close, but it is totally physical. No interest in any type of relationship, which is probably why she is so interested. She is pretty hot, just not much going on upstairs. Thoughts?

[Neuromancer]

BOC rules dude.

You have been stringing it out a bit long haven't you? Sounds like she's pulling shit tests. (I have a post about them from stylelife.com open in another tab).

I say make plans for you and buddies and invite her along. "Hey, my buddies and I are rollin' to a Hooka bar in Richardson tonight called Jazmin. You are welcome to come along if you want. Hell, bring friends, the more the better with hooka."

If she complains about smoke, wanting to go somewhere else, just the two of you etc. Just say, "Already made plans. Like I said you can come along. You never know what could happen."

If she bails and pulls the "I guess you don't want to see me" shit Say "Well you could see me at the hooka bar but if you are alergic to fun, that's cool."

If she bails and later says it, say, "Hey I invited you to a hooka bar. It was a blast and you missed out. You should have come."

Always give her a chance to join your fun and if she flakes, she can't blame you.

[Neuromancer]

Also, If she complains about, smoke, noise or whatever, she's just trying to bring everyone down and you don't want her around anyway.

If she really is a cool chick but has problems with the smoke or whatever, she will be polite, hang out, for a bit and say she's gotta go home to wash her fingernails or something. Then the next time you talk to her she say she had fun and quietly drop now the smoke got to her a bit. Then you will know she really has a problem with the smoke. You can then plan accordingly. "Well there is a gallery showing that I was thinking about hitting. That's less smokey. You can come along if you like art."

[Suave]

Well I don't really know what ou mean by her switching up plans, but for instance... Say you made plans to go to X place tonight, but she says lets go to Y instaed... If this were the case, then i would not totally agree with her, but would still hang out and go see her.

yeah so she switched it up, but if she really wants to f-close, then what does it matter what the plans are? Its not about the plans in the beginning, its all about what happens at the end of the night.

Just my opinion.