First or all I just want to say that if you have not been to a meeting yet you have got to go. There are so many cool guys that go and if you have points that you need to work on its nice to pick their brains. Thanks to everyone who gave me some pointers last night.
So we leave Starbucks and head on over to Shamrocks. I like the look of the place. I think its owned by the same company that owns Bakers Street. There’s one in Ft Worth that has basically the same layout just smaller. Vector the guys and I find a good place to hang out where lots of women pass by. Its right next to the bar and on the way to the ladies room. I watched as 4-6 guys try to open this 2 set of girls sitting in a booth for two. I don’t think anyone did well with them. The ugly one was not interested in talking and it was hard to join them since there was nowhere to sit. I remember the ugly one saying to her friend something like, “Hey, you wanna stop ignoring me?”
There was a guy in a pink shirt with a black tie and I’m sorry I can’t remember his name but he was smooth. He opened a 2 set with his bubble pipe and seemed to be doing ok. I couldn’t hear anything but observed some light kino. I don’t know if he got blown out or not but suddenly he just turns a complete 180 and opens a 3 set behind him of 2 girls and a guy.
I get bored and walk around to look for a set to open. Lots of beautiful girls but argh I get AA. I feel very relaxed when it comes to building rapport but it’s the initial attraction and opening I’m stuck on. Any suggestions?
I come back to the group and I’m grabbed by someone who’s in a 3 set and told, “When I give you the word I want you to walk over here and kiss the girl in the red.” …Shit. I’m pulled over and lay it on some girl from Peru while my picture is taken. From there I isolated and built plenty or rapport with kino and even some role playing. I told her that we should go to Peru and she could be my tour guide. Blah Blah Blah. Got a # close and excused myself. By now its 1 AM and I head out back to Ft Worth.
Thanks everyone I had a great time but never opened a set. I’m thinking about learning some scripted material and just using that till I’m comfortable. Tomorrow night I’m off work and going to Baker Street in Ft Worth to get blown out as much as possible. I guess I have to make myself do it if I’m ever going to get over this AA. Your thoughts are welcome. Thanks!