Dallas PUA

sorry, closing this thread if possible

Kit:

Liked the post, very detailed and well organized. As for the woman, eh, not so much. The phrase just because you can, doesn't mean you should, comes to mind.

If you re-read your post I'll bet you can understand why she had to profess her love for you. She's insecure, not very bright, materialistic, and not much fun it sounds like. So...all the sudden she's doing it with this guy she's just met and is pretty sure doesn't like her, so what's a girl to do? She drops the L word and in one fell swoop justifies her behavior and throws a trial hook.

If youre looking to sport F, I'd target women with higher self-esteem, hell that's what you/we should be targeting anyway. Anyway, enjoyed the post.

Regards,
Larry

Larry Biggerstaff wrote:The phrase just because you can, doesn't mean you should, comes to mind.

Amen. I am new to this and was looking to try some stuff out. I had not known her long enough to know if she was fun so I gave her the benefit of the doubt.

I'm one step ahead of you though as I have greatly increased my standards already and agree fully with you.

good work.

Kit......even though I wasn't there, I had a good time at the bar just from your interaction with this HB and the things you were using on her (cube, riddles, math puzzles)!

Kit wrote:....I fucked her but as soon as I start fucking her she looks me in the eyes and says, “I love you.” OH MY FUCKING HELL! I did everything I could to avoid this. WTF happened here? Please help me people. I looked at her like WTF did you just say and she says, “I mean I love you in this moment.” Well I finished fucking her but literally almost vomited on my way home....

HAHA!!!!! ROFL ...

Did you ever say... you weren't looking for a long Term Relationship?
(this is not an advice... but info me to learn)

Which is the better way?
Being truthful and end it all.... OR... become F buddies and demo some needy values to slowly turn her away.

edit

tell her to not harbor dissent for the player, rather shift her discomfort toward displeasure for the game.



you're awesome...lol.

Kit wrote:I don't know man, that one really confused me. Quite honestly I think all the crap I am reading just worked too well. Two days after the close she sent me a text saying she cannot stop thinking about me. I haven't responded and do not intend to.

I think my mistake was not setting my standards higher. I was way overconfident which she ended up loving.

Did the Sex seal the deal?
Sex produces natural endorphs, maybe she is confusing the tingly feeling of the natural high with love.

I think PUAs has an understanding and a real distinction of what is love and what is infatuation and what is just sex. Therefore, maybe to the least sophiscated ladies with less experience they confuse these emotional highs.