I can't read women

[Rembrandt]

I ran into HBbigBoobs tonight. Haven't seen her in about a year. We used to run into each other all the time and she loves dancing with me (that's always been a big prob for me...hot chicks like to dance with me but that's it). She said I'd be seeing her around more. She used to never seem interested in more than dancing so I didn't pursue anything. Just whenever I'd get shot down a few times I'd go grab her and dance and make myself feel a little better.

Anyway we were dancing tonight and were catching up and I just can't figure out if she's interested or not. She squeezes her huge boobs into me, but she's always done that...I don't really consider it an IOI. Part of me doesn't want to screw up having a hot chick available to dance whenever I want (She never turns me down) and then part of me is wondering if I'm being an idiot not trying to push things further.

Should I just ask her out the next time I see her? Part of me thinks even if she turns me down, she'll still dance with me, but I don't know. Should i just consider her a friend and forget about it?

She was telling me that she is a home health care nurse. I said oh you like to stick people with needles.....I might need some home health care. and then she said." Yeah I can poke you with a needle" and I said "Yeah, well I might poke you back"....she kind of ignored and and kept talking...

[Muk]

forget about screwing her...use her as a pivot and she'll come along after seeing you with other women

[playercool]

LJBF

Time to turn her into a pivot.

[Tribulus1000]

She was telling me that she is a home health care nurse. I said oh you like to stick people with needles.....I might need some home health care. and then she said." Yeah I can poke you with a needle" and I said "Yeah, well I might poke you back"....she kind of ignored and and kept talking...

Yeah man that's it. Keep getting her to jump through hoops and be playful.

[dubya]

She was telling me that she is a home health care nurse. I said oh you like to stick people with needles.....I might need some home health care. and then she said." Yeah I can poke you with a needle" and I said "Yeah, well I might poke you back"....she kind of ignored and and kept talking...

Yeah man that's it. Keep getting her to jump through hoops and be playful.

I'm just curious cause I didn't really see them in the above post but what hoops exactly has she jumped through?


Rembrandt
Some girls just love to dance. I have gone out with a gaggle of girls before and been forced to dance with every one of them and at that time knew that nothing could happen with any of them because we were in the friends zone.

You threw out a hoop at the end there that was pretty direct that she didn't jump through. If she were into you she would have jumped through it. I don't know if this is salvagable or not but... personally I would try to build more comfort, escalate kino and break report.