help!!!

[tpxgloveboy]

ok guys, I really need some help on this one....any suggestions or tips on how to go about this is appreciated....

so I'm at this party tonight....just got home from it and I had to write this down so I wouldn't forget

sorority party....they had a male stripper because it was one of the girl's 21st birthday....guys were supposed to show up later on so the male stripper could do his thing for the sorority girls....

so I roll in with a lot of my brothers.....instant success right when we walked in because it was a vaginal fest there and the girls actually cheered when we walked in....got hugs and 'whats ups' from all the girls I knew.....

party was really really good...met everybody...had a great time...

I was having so much fun and so confident that I decided to use a technique I've never used before...

I'm talking to this one girl who is a friend of my fraternity brother.....HB9.5.....so we're talking and everything and I tell her that I'm gay...haha...

My brother starts laughing 'cuz he knows it's not true....and HB9.5 doesn't believe me at first....so I start playing up that I was a little mad that I missed the male stripper

We talk here and there...I leave, come back, leave, come back....I tell her that if I wasn't gay, then I'd probably think she was cute and ask her for her number, but I'm not into her like that....but then I told her that she would make a perfect shopping buddy..my brother is right there laughing which I think makes me look that much better because if he thinks I'm funny, then something must be working...

I play the Fuck, Marry, Kill game with her and tell her that she can even choose me for one of them even though I'm gay....she plays it half-seriously, but nonetheless, she plays...

leave and then come back.....then I isolate her...we are talking one-on-one....we talk about how this guy from another fraternity had her in a boring boring conversation and how she couldn't get out of it...

she's leaning up against an entertainment center and kind of knocking it over, so I tell her, "dang girl....you need to drink more and loosen up...you're not acting crazy enough" to which she knew I was kidding....then she says about how she's already had 3 beers....I tell her (which by the way was risky, but I think I pulled it off)....I tell her, "from the very first time we talked up until now, it looked like her shirt has stretched a little bit", to which I kino'ed (had already kino'ed a lot up to this point but took it a little further this time by putting my hands around her waist and hips).....she got really mad and put the beer down....and I picked it up and said, "no no no wait....lemme show you a trick...you can still benefit from drinking beer.....lemme show you something" (then I move her arm in a way to mimic the effect of taking a beer) and then I say "see you can actually do bicep curls when you drink"....she laughed....she asked me who I would fuck, marry, kill...we did some laughing about that for a couple minutes....

then i went into saying, "no....when I used to fuck girls....I would FUCK them....I'm the kind of guy who will grab a girl by her neck, shove her up against a wall, make out with her and fuck her against that wall".....she smiled really seductively and I knew she was liking it....I told her "I want to make a woman feel like she is a WOMAN, and I make sure I do that"....she started agreeing with me and even telling me what she likes....then I tell her about how I really grab the girl's body especially her tits and I mimic the moves and everything and how I get into all this foreplay and this and that, and she was eating it up...didn't move.....then she went into about how she didn't think she was like most girls and how most girls probably wouldn't like that...I said "well being gay and all, i have this conversation a lot with girls and you'd be surprised at how much you are just like a lot of them".....she laughed and it went really really well...my friend came up and was like, "dude we have to go now..it's late".....that gave me instant opening to tell her that I was heading out....I set up my phone with her name in it already (thought maybe that was a good move 'cuz she gave me her name really early in the night...maybe I got points for remembering it)....she gave me her number....

this leads me to the point of this post....I really dont' wanna mess this up....this girl is hot....I think she has the same sexual energy as I do...and I was definitely digging her.....how do I go about setting up a Day 2 or keeping the energy still there or what....I would date the girl....I think me and her would get along really well....I would wanna try it out

what are your suggestions or tips or techniques or methods on this??

[Dax]

hey there...I know it's pretty late, but I noticed that no one responded...so I might as well give my 2 cents. Plus...even if you already tried other tactics, you could still do this with "zero" indicated intentions.

First off...I will say that there are a million opinions on 2nd meet-ups, but I'm suggesting a more general approach (always leaving opportunity to increase the specificity).

I would first make plans...as if you and your other friends (guys and gals) were going to have just an awesome night on the town. Actually plan this accordingly...don't just set this up for her. Then call just to talk 2 her. Ask questions about her, her hobbies, her interests...all while subtly DHVing yourself and ignoring the sexuality you guys had in common... go ahead and run with the gay thing, by your actions, not verbally reminding her. Ask yourself what a gay guy would do...I think he would want to get to know her...innocently right? He might even be screening her to see if she is "cool enough" to go shopping with him. As you would guess, an AFC would immediately try to revert back to their sexual convo. Pretty big indication of his intention...which she gets at every college party. I know I'm probably saying things you know, but oh well. Be unique, un-needy, genuine, and selective.

Now that you are talking with her...ask if she has ever been to the location of your planned event...build it up...tell her how much fun you plan on having. Gauge her vocal response...find out if she is interested in your gathering. ..either way, don't invite her. Tell her YOU have to let her go cause a girlfriend of your is celebrating her b-day. Y'all will chat later in the week.

A few days later, if she hasn't called (which she will 'probably' have done if you had solid convo and built comfort), then call her. Have a normal convo like we discussed above, but before you get off the phone say...oh hey, you should bring some friends and meet (not come with) us at place X that I was talkin about the other day.

This is an innocent invitation, which what I personally feel is necessary in this situation. I mean you met at a party and she thinks you are probably a fun and exciting person. Show her this...your world is fun, with or w/out anyone (including her) in it! The invitation gives her an option to see this first hand.

Now go to you event and have a ball...open sets left and right...meet new people...new friends...and if she shows up with, she will see this and want to be a part of it. Introduce her pals to your new and old ones...make them feel a part of your fun world too. Give them plenty of attention...if one of them wants to leave, you know the power she has to drag the rest away.

Don't give the target too much attention...let your friends or other AFC's do that. Make her feel comfortable and glad she came...just remember that she is IN your world, NOT your world in and of itself...continue to live the night in your fun reality, just as you were before. Have a few routines or a conspiracy planned to start with her at some point in the night. You can go back to this whenever you feel necessary or appropriate.

Begin to isolate as her interest increases or as the night winds down. Make her qualify a bit. Tell her that you're glad she came by. Ask why you feel an attraction towards her of ALL the gals you meet...qualifying more (SOI tests). Reciprocate...IOI tests...then you have a decision to make. To push or not to push. This is where I would say don't...simply because you indicated that she may be quality enough to date, but AVOID the friend zone though! A K-close might be the minimum necessary for this...depending on a few factors that only you can feel in the moment.

The call is all yours my friend.

Good luck and let me know how things progress.