FR: AFC Adam vs the Call on me girls

[AFC AdamLondon]

Wow guys, so it's been a bit of time since my last report,

Lets keep you posted on whats been happening, as you may or may not know I've been spured on to build up my sarging as an in case.

My wing made a comment to me recently telling me:

MrM: Adam, Everytime a girl hurts you, you rely on your game for support. It isn't healthy.

Now while this may potentially be true, there are a number of counter arguements I wish to make.

1) I only get hurt by girls I genuinely care about and want to be with. That means I am investing a lot of myself into them, if this is then thrown back at me, ignored, or I'm left confused as to how they feel it hurts. Naturally. I'm not in this game to get random girls, I've had my share of that, I'm looking for the one that wants me as much as I want her. If they don't respect me in this way, then the only thing to do is go back out and keep looking for the right one.

2) I don't worry about "losing" my game, I've done enough sets now to beleive that it works. There is nothing about this, it's a skill set, you don't suddenly lose it, if I have a bad day I have a bad day. But the simple truth is the benefit of learning game is knowing you are armed with the ability to have greater choice, and to find exactly the girl you're looking for.

These are fundamental rules I'm sticking to at this present moment in my life.

So I'm continuing to grow my social power, as I mentioned completely from cold.

To give you guys a quick over view of the last few days.

I've number closed; From cold approaches.

Miss Eritria 2007
A mexican HB
A podium dancer from a nightclub. (I think I wrote about this one in a field report)

2 of the three of these are on film, though I have to check the quality out.

I also had a bit of a valentines day disaster.

I was having a crap day on valentines, I was looking to spend it without the person I wanted to be with, and in fairness, I don't think she even wanted to spend it with me, so honestly it wasn't looking too rosy.

I number closed a Hb a few weeks earlier, who I'd just LJBF'd but this girl is HOT. Stupid Hot, and I figured she's pretty cool so why not give her a random call out the blue.

Well.. I don't know why but I started running game. Nothing massive, just a few bits and bobs, and then before I know it I was being a complete Dick. Though not in the sense of a normal guy.

No, you see this girl has a BF, yep you heard it right. The Hot one's almost always do. I was Bf destroying, to a level I am refusing to break down for anyone, because I don't beleive in it at all. In fairness I was surprised how well I knew how to do it.

Within a few hours she was looking to cancel her Valentines date with her BF to go out with me instead.

Why was I doing this? Hurt. I'd been hurt by someone I loved and instead of being constructive I was being a complete prick.

Love does crazy things to you, thankfully I realised how much of an idiot I was being in time, DHV'd her BF alot, and backed out of the dinner. Instead I spent the evening chatting crap online with the girl I wanted to spend valentines day with. Call it fate, call it karma, call it what you want.

But If I'd have gone along I would not only have hurt some really cool people, I'd have missed out on my chat too.

With great power comes great responsibility guys. remember this!

I have ambitions to be a great person, not just in my work, but in my life as well. One day i want my kid to look up and be proud to call me dad. The Dad i want to be wouldn't do that, Although I may falter, I know the path I'm trying to tread.

Anywho I digress.

This brings us up to today, I'm still purposely not closing any girls in a bid to truly grow this social circle and climb the ladder. Today a massive peice fell into the puzzle.

It turns out that the podium dancer wasn't just any old dancer, she was part of a group that appeared in a slightly famous music video.....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K-2iwGeZ2O4

And with a bit of talkign about the fashion connections I've been making, and the fact that I've recently been teaching myself video editing I find myself going to lunch with the lead ancer from the vid.

Now lets be real...who here would think of this as a day2?

Who'lld go for the close?

I hope no-one is thinking yes, because I certainly didn't.

Instead I had a great lunch. Which I paid for. OMG...yes I did.

We spoke about her work, and her aims for the girls, we spoke about various contacts I had which may be able to help her, and that we could splice together some of her new music vids into a viraly type video, just to see what would happen.

Wow guys alot of investment there eh?

Not really.

it was a great chat with a really hot girl, and as soon as I came home I simply cut and pasted her detaisl to all the contacts I've made in the last few weeks giving them all an introduction.

In return? Well she's so impressed that I didn't just chat crap, I've got myself an invite out to a nightclub with all the girlies. AS THE ONLY GUY!

For the sake of 3 emails, and a quick lunch for £30.

The free alcohol alone I'll get back would cover that...but the social proof...well that's gonna be priceless.

Though this is far from the end....think my metagame x10.

The game continues.

AFC Adam