Dallas PUA

I wanted to share a text battle I had with a girl just a moment ago.

Me: (I used GS's V-day closing from the Austin Society) Happy unimaginative, consumerist, entirely arbitrary, manipulative and shallow interpretation of a romance day!

Her: Ooh. Someone is a little bitter about St. Valentines day. Do you not have a date or something? It's alright, you're still hot!

Me: Where's your date missy?

Her: Haha I broke up with the guy I was seeing about a week ago. it happens, I should have planned it better.

Me: Haha u should have. Ill tell you what. Ill pick u up and I promise ull have the worst vday ever. Ill even let you buy dinner. Sound like fun?

Her: Greaaaaaat. Love it

Me: Great. Pick you up at 8 then.

Her: Hahaha. Nah. I'm high maintenence.

Me: Awesome! Then you can look at yourself in the mirror as im hittin it from behind. Haha

Her: Ha! Youre not endearing yourself to me. I'm actually going to go out with some girlfriends I think.

Me: Way to waste all this awesome flirting we've had going on here.

Her: Haha Well I don't know. High maintence girls just like being chased I guess.

Me: What are you talking about?

Her: I'm just teasing you.

Me: If youre gonna tease me... U have to follow through. And I dont think you have it in you.

Her: I doubt I would fuck you if that's what youre saying. I don't see you putting in the kind of effort it would take. I don't do one night stands No matter hot the guy.

Me: Whoa! Slow down pumkin. I need comfort and trust before I can do that.

Her:Lol you're cute.

Me: Thanks.
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Questions, comments, critique.

Thanks.

Am I the only one who loves it when girls use the word "fuck" in reference to sex?

Finesse wrote:Her: Hahaha. Nah. I'm high maintenence.

I'm kinda bad at text game so I'm not really in a position to offer possible alternatives, but I did notice that the high maintenance theme was not killed, and I have a feeling it will continue to be a problem.

Reframe: by high maintenance I take it you mean classy, whereas when I hear high maintenance I think needy, which I know you're not. That would be my frame, but I wouldn't say all those words.

Me: Hah, whatever. To me there's a big difference between classy and needy.

Then perhaps the "high maintenance girls like being chased" might have been averted, if you had established the frame that neediness is not okay.

But what do I know? You did get her thinking about fucking you after all.

I was actually thinking about how I could reframe the high maintenence thing.

Her: Hahaha. Nah. I'm high maintenence.

Me: Awesome! Then you can look at yourself in the mirror as im hittin it from behind. Haha

I agree with vector, but I personally think your response was fn hilarious.

Haha, awesome.

The force is strong in you, young Finesse...

At the end of that conv she is communicating to you that she thinks you're hot and is considering sleeping with you.

I'd disqualify. Cool, I wouldn't sleep with me either, I'm horrible in bed. I can never find my g spot...

WF